Why Should Woman Create A Comfortable Home?

in life •  7 years ago  (edited)

We all love it when the house is clean and tidy, but few people enjoy the household chores. Cleaning, cooking and creating comfort from time immemorial were women's occupations. But today women work on a par with men, so they do not have time to clean and stand at the stove. And even unemployed ladies, called housewives, often refuse to burden themselves with washing the floors and baking pies. Now a woman exists outside her home. It is realized at work, dresses up and induces beauty for gatherings with girlfriends. Why clean, if around a lot of interesting activities - sauna, massage, shopping, fitness, solarium?

Well-groomed beauty returns home and it turns out that her living space is not as fine as herself. If this young free girl, it's not so sad - there is still hope that she will get married and settle down. But it's quite sad when she has a family and children, and at home a mess, in the fridge is empty. Naturally, households are uncomfortable living in mud and disorder, but this is not the only reason why a woman should maintain cleanliness and create coziness in her home.

Representatives of the weaker sex at the energy level are related to the place in which they live. When the hostess does not like to clean and cook, she deprives herself of her own feminine essence. As much as she did not earn, however attractive and fashionable, she lacks inner meaning, if she does not care about her loved ones. Her energy flows through the garbage and dirt, and the house turns into a doss house where the husband and children do not like to spend time. Creating around herself cleanliness and beauty, the hostess fills with positive energy and herself, and her family, and her house.

It is not surprising that families in which the wife is slovenly and lazy often disintegrate. The absence of order and coziness is only an outward manifestation. It entails the loss of the connecting force between the members of the family - there is no native nest, a hearth that gathers around all the household members. Because of this, everyone, including the landlady, feels as if they have no home at all. This leads to a sense of inner discomfort, a sense of his lack of rest - as if the person does not have a rear, a refuge in which one can relax in the soul. 

An interesting question - what if the housekeeper directs the order? Having come to such houses, you can notice that they resemble hotel rooms - there is no feeling of habitation, heat. It seems that the rooms are faceless and empty, they do not reflect the identity of the inhabitants. About the comfort must take care of the mistress, because the cleaner will never put her soul in someone else's home, for her it is nothing more than work. 

Therefore, a woman should not just clean up, but do it with love and enthusiasm; not just to cook, but to cook with pleasure and treat your family. Demonstration of love for loved ones is not only in words or embraces, but also in caring for their well-being.

Our grandmothers are real women. They can not calm down until they feed everyone in the dump, they do not know how to sit around, and the dust on their dresser is perceived as a disgrace. Maybe that's why their marriages were much stronger than the current ones?

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Personally, I'm not deeply offended since I'm not a woman myself, but just a heads up that this post has the potential to make a lot of people very angry.