A person's true strength begins with silence. In this world, everyone has the right and freedom to speak and express. But it is quite difficult to restrain yourself, not complain when you are sad, and not show off when you are happy. It is not difficult to find that the more incompetent people, the more they like to chatter. Really powerful people know how to suffer without speaking, and joy without speaking.
01 Suffering without words Have seen a story: A fox was accidentally injured while looking for food. A cut was made in his leg. The wound was not big, but it was painful. Therefore, every time it encounters a person, it tears open the wound to show it to the other person, and talks about the difficulty of searching for food and the excruciating pain. But everyone disagrees: "What's the big deal with such a small wound." In the end, the fox not only received no comfort or help, but almost lost his life because of the wound infection. In life, many people are like this fox, telling each other about their sufferings, hoping to get comfort from others. But the world has never felt the same way. Others can't understand your pain, some will be annoying if you listen too much, and some will use it as a laughingstock to promote it.
"Disqualification in the World" wrote: I still think that complaining to others is nothing but futile, and it is better to endure it in silence. The so-called growth is the process of turning the crying sound into silence, turning grievances into motivation, and turning anger into aspiration. Stop telling people about your sufferings, learn to change quietly, turn sufferings into nourishment for growth, and come back to work when the time comes. It's a blockbuster.
02 Happy but not talking
If you can live to be liked, don't live to be jealous. It may be luck for a person to live well, but it is a remarkable ability to live without annoying and irritating people. The greatest stupidity of human nature is to constantly show off one's happiness.
Nothing is too late, and the endless chatter will not only fail to gain the respect and envy of others, but can only arouse disgust and disgust.
Happiness can of course be shared, but be sure not to disturb others.
someone said: In our life, the most difficult thing is not to express, but to know how to be silent. Don't complain when you are in hardship, you can only get through yourself; when you are happy, you don't show off, and showing off your happiness will only attract disgust. A person's true strength begins with silence. For the rest of your life, I hope you have the perseverance of suffering without speaking, the calmness of joy without saying a word, smile to see the people coming and going in this world, the clouds are rising and falling.