The fastest way to abolish a person: let him be idle, idle, idle all day

"Why do people lose confidence in life?" "It's because it's too free." People are energetic, knowledgeable, and more practical and willing to work, but as long as they are lying on the bed, it is the same. It's a blessing to be idle while busy, but it is inevitable to be discouraged if you are idle for too long. If you are idle all day, one person will be useless.

Drucker once said: "If you calculate your time, you will find that you spend most of your energy on things that don't make sense." There is no limit to what you want to do, and time is always limited. I'm afraid that time has been paid for bitter tea, and all wishes have been given to quicksand. For those who are idle all day, without counting time, they already know that it is meaningless. Blogger Urban said in his TED talk about his painful experience of catching up with papers: He had a perfect plan. He wrote slowly at the beginning, gradually worked harder, and drew a diagram of the arrangement. A 90-page essay, divided into one year, seems to be a breeze. But he didn't write in the first few months, watching movies, watching gossip, and dangling and passing, thinking of going up, he flew away in the middle few months, and his thesis only had a few words.
From one month, two weeks, to only three days left, he finally rushed into the study room in fright. After staying up for two consecutive nights, he hurried out in the last 72 hours and almost missed it. Recalling the tutor’s expression and the results of pulling the hips, he stood on the stage and shook his head and said: "Super invincible!" Forced to get black eyes and only reap a "super bad", just like the epitome of every idler's life. Obviously longing, clearly planned, the desire is close at hand, and it is instantly shattered. Saying that life is too bitter is ruined in my own hands. Step by step, steady and steady, no matter how difficult things are, they can be completed. Don't wait for your ambition to die, and then complain about the fruitlessness.
No one pushes you for a lot of things, and there is no deadline, and idleness becomes a habit, and there is no motivation to fight. At the end of the idle, I thought it was desperate if I worked hard. There is a post on the Internet: "What should I do if I want to quit after working for two months?" Last year, the host stayed at home for a whole year, every day in a muddle-headed manner, lying on the sofa, eating snacks, how comfortable he was. In February of this year, there was too much gossip from relatives and friends, and he finally went to find a job. Because he hadn't experienced this kind of suffering for a long time, his head burst when he thought of going to work. I usually stay by myself, and I want to hide behind when I see my colleagues and clients, and I don't want to talk to them. He hates the content of work even more. Whenever a new job comes, he feels flustered, like a stone is pressed, and he does not work well.

In the face of his complaints, someone very pertinently suggested: "If you are lazy, too lazy to get up, too lazy to work from 9 to 5, too lazy to be refreshed two days a week, don't resign." Bad habits are easier to develop than good habits, and idleness and laziness are a cycle. The less you go out, the less you don't want to move your legs, the less you read, the less you want to turn your mind, and the more idle you are, and you don't have the courage to look outside. We all want to indulge and indulge for a while, but the reality is not like this. Many things are not whether you want to face it, but you must face it. As the answerer said: "We must always learn to live by ourselves." If you are afraid of things, you will keep hiding, and the more you hide, the more you will be afraid of things. Before encountering trouble, he thought of escape first, and before he needed to face the battle, he first admitted to counseling. I wasted my whole life when I was idle.