It is said that experience teaches you about Life. When we grow up, especially if you had a wonderful childhood, we see people as perfect, like super heroes. When they love us, they can do no wrong to us. We feel they will protect us no matter what; we believe that they have got our backs no matter the weather.
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Well, we reach adult life and find out that it is not so. People are humans and they are prone to disappoint you. This is the reason a lot of people are hurt and face heart break.
I was talking to a friend the other day and he said that there is no real love out in the world at the moment. I told him that I do not agree with him and that it is because of the experiences that he had that is why he felt that way.
It is always good to have an optimistic ideology. Always believe that some thing good will come out of situations no matter the outcome.
Brace your self for disappointments so it does not hurt as much as it would when you are not prepared. Put it at the back of your mind that no one is perfect, even you.
Have a back up plan for situations so you do not get stranded.
Relax, what is meant to be will be. Do not stress yourself.
I thank God for the circumstances I have faced. If I did not live through that, I will not be who I am today.
ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, SURROUND YOURSELF WITH LOVE, STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVE ENERGY.
BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOU.
We need experiences from people around us to make us the people we want. Nobody is truly perfect.
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Except @chiama ;-)
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I just discovered your blog when #wafrica gave you a mention.....I must coinfess I have found very good posts on your blog....Keep the good work on and you will be sure to have me come around to read everyday......I love this one too.
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Thank you for visiting my post,I am happy happy that my words resonated with you, God bless you.
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POSITIVE VIBES ONLY!
is a really good rule
things just work out better that way?
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I agree. We live in a non-perfect world dominated by close to perfect beings. All we can do is to have POSITIVE VIBES ONLY.
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I have people who have wronged me and i forgave them all now i am free also
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Yes my dear, this is necessary to have peace of mind. Life is too sweet to bear grudges.
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@chaima i agree with you 100% .. you know we hurt ourselves when expect people to be perfect and let people steal our joy..
at times we have to let expectations down so that we dont get disappointed.
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Very true words dear.
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@chiama, thanks for sharing this lovely post. Truly, no one is super-perfect man or woman; we all have our own strengths and weaknesses, which is reason why we all need to strongly uphold this line (in one the images of this post) as we live life:
Judge less, love more!
kind regards.
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