Don't Complaint About Things You Can't Change

If you're like most people, you feel that if you don't complain about things you can't change, you will never be happy. Unfortunately, this belief is totally untrue. In fact, it's probably just one of those old lies that keep people from taking action to achieve their goals.


I know what you're thinking, what do I do when I can't change something? Simply wait for it to change. There's a lot of truth to that. I'm not sure why people choose to complain when they can easily make changes.

Lets look at an example. Lets say you don't have the money to get yourself a new car. You could simply wait until money becomes available, but you know that in the near future that will not happen. So what's your options. You can decide to sit in your seat and wait for some miracle to happen, or you can get mad and think" that's it, I'm going to get my own car".

Both of these options are bad choices. The first option does nothing positive for you. On the other hand, if you don't complain about things you can't change, you will never take action and achieve the things you desire. Just think about a movie. If a car chase is going on, and you have a car, you will not always complain and wait for the car to come to you.

You will get out there and begin to change things, right? Sure, you might get hurt or even killed. But the change you are causing, the difference you are creating, the power you are asserting, the way that life feels... it all gives you power. And when you are in the position of dominance and in control, you don't' even have to say anything, because everything is happening under your direct control.

Why complain when you could be in the position of dominance and in complete control of everything that happens? Why complain when you could be in the position of total freedom and in charge of everything that happens? You can be free like you have never been before. You can be in charge and you should be able to say "I am in charge and I want my life to be this way". Why complain when you have the power to do something about it?

Its human nature to want to do something to have that power. And the more you do it the more control you will have over life. So if you feel like you are doing nothing to change things, take action. Start being passionate about changing your life. The more passionate you are about it the more control you will have over life.


So, when you complain you are actually limiting yourself and stopping yourself from taking full advantage of your life. Instead of being a complainer, you should be a creator. Instead of saying "I wish things would change" say "I will change what I can to make it change". And when you see the results, instead of being disappointed or discouraged, celebrate the fact that you are taking charge and you are making a difference. If you don't' do it, someone else will, so complain less and be more.