Great points. I like to tell my kids that what other people think about them is none of their business. What other people think about me or my kids has nothing to do with us - it has to do with the viewer because we have no control over how/why they view the way they do. That can be a tricky concept for kids to grasp if they are caught up in the centralized systems of control. It sounds like your daughter has a strong grasp on her personal power and place in this world. Good for her! Sounds like she has a great role model. :)