I am like most of you . I have been lied to , cheated on and wronged.
In my younger years my response would anger and revenge. I would get justice , I was wronged and I deserve justice. I will fight the right fight. No one will take advantage of me without paying the price.
However as I grew older, I realized all that revenge and anger cost me time and energy. These are two of the most valuable resources we have. So why give them to Those who don't deserve it.
This does not mean you should let yourself be taken advantage of. I have since viewed the people i know as those I trust and those I dont. Save your resource for those who deserve it. 