Truthfully, she may be on to something... believe it or not. I know that dealing with the used diapers doesn't seem ideal but I also know that there are multiple diaper services available. Although I am not personally familiar with using diaper services, I know of someone who was gifted a subscription and loved it. I searched around online before writing this and found an article with lots of info you may be interested in peeking at;0) Hope this info is helpful, keep us posted:0)
http://babytooshy.com/diaper-service/