@k4r1nn, I cannot express how much I relate to your post. I too love order, consistency, efficiency, and symmetry. Unfortunately not all (if any) individuals share such passions...let alone understand them. I am currently in the midst of a project where I must reconsider my expectations on a daily basis. Although it has been incredibly challenging, my soul knows that once it is all said and done I will have learned how to adapt to a variety of situations I could not have fathomed a month ago. Try to remember that we are all individuals, and therefore are likely used to seeing things from our own perspective. Which means, what may make all of the logical sense in the world to people like us, may very well be as foreign of a thought as a new language to others. This is not to say the ability to recalibrate isn't there...simply that it may require a LOT of consistency and perhaps even more patience;0) Thanks for your perfectly timed post.