Vengeance! A word with full of fire and violence itself. Some people have to face a lot of difficulties for the actions of another person. Sometimes these difficulties are worse which forces us develop a feeling only to punish that person for his/her mistakes. That feeling is called ‘Vengeance’.
Humans doesn’t have the right to punish people for their mistakes. Neither GOD allows this nor our country’s law, for good actually. I’m not a psychologist, but every story I’ve heard about someone acquiring revenge on someone else is one of regret. They feel really good about appeasing their sense of justice in the moment and immediately following the act, but it quickly subsides and a feeling of emptiness sets in. The avenged wish they hadn’t been wronged in the first place, which of course is impossible to reverse.
Vengeance is the opposite of forgiveness. Remember too that the one who wronged you is a person as well, who despite their actions also has feelings of regret, sadness, and guilt. They have to live with what they have done. So why not forgive them?
Forgive someone for their mistakes is far noble thing to do, even for the betterment of society. Forgiveness gives us an inner peace which we’ll feel rest of our life opposing to vengeance which we’ll feel only for a second and spend the rest of our life in guilt. By the way Vengeance doesn’t reverse the wrong actions for which you have this feeling. So just forgive and Let Karma do its work.
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I still wonder why people think revenge is any good, being vengeful is a trait of weak people, and to me it isn't that hard to overcome, unless you aren't confident about yourself.
Everyone has the need to think of revenge in some way several times in their life, but those who go forward with it should probably work on improving themselves, not attacking others.
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Actually, to those who aren't strong enough, vengeance comes very easily. Undoubtedly vengeance comes from the mind of weak people and from those who are not confident enough about themselves. If in any sense their ego get hurt, they always turn to vengeance instead of letting go. Instead of vengeance, people should learn to cultivate forgiveness because it is the only way which leads to the peace of mind.
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letting go is the biggest challenge for the human race...but the end results will be complete peace :)
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Undoubtedly yes. Letting go is the hardest challenge for the human race whether it is love or hatred.
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It is quite easy for me to let go. Because I have to understand that human beings aren't near perfect. so when I get offended, I take it as the unperfect side of the person, and not blame the person.
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That's a highly appreciable skill you have with you. Not all people can forgive easily and it takes a huge amount of time for people today to forgive someone. Hats off to you. You are an inspiration to people of today's generation. @ekason
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Thanks but you must know it wasn't a day's job. It took a lot of hard work. I can remember in high school, I used to be this quiet going person. One day, a juvenille got me so angry by following me around and calling me names because I was fat. I was so angry and was ready to fight. My tutor saw me and asked what happened, I was so angry I couldn't even get myself to talk, but he got the gist. He just told me, 'If you fight with him, you are not different from him'. And I started reading books on it, understanding the weak nature of man, working on emotions, and i gradually got there. Today, I hardly pay attention to people who are set to hurt me, let alone plan a vengeful act against them.
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