*RECONCILIATION *

A friend came to check up on me not quite long, but unfortunately he left, leaving me so enraged with him.

As I said earlier, I was angry with him, but at a point I said to myself,
'An unforgiving spirit is a malignancy in a person's soul, that spreads like cancer'.
Despite that, God offers a sure healing process for the heart that is consumed with bitterness.

So dear friend, I know you will be reading this post and I want you to know I am not angry with you anymore,
but I want you to know that THREE words describe the process of RECONCILIATION. Recognition, Agreement and Remembrance.
*Recognition comes in when we acknowledge that our(both parties) actions are wrong, then we won't see any real need to blame each other.

Next, we must agree with the assessment of our behavior. Without agreement, our acknowledgement is not a genuine remorseful act.

Finally, we should always remeber how often God forgives us.
We cannot ultimately experience the joy of God's forgiveness until we follow his model and pardon those who have wronged us. We should not allow the cancer of bitterness to continue in our heart.

Life is much sweeter when the heart is tender and not tainted. 

I hope we can make use of this processes.