Most relationships start very well with so much joy and amazing feelings. However, it is sad to find out that they end up the opposite way with even so much hate and anger. Breaking up is most often the final resort in a dilapidating relationship even though both parties involved would not have wanted a break up. Before splitting up, I would like you to consider the following questions and ask yourself if you or your partner can relate to them.
1. What is your partner’s continuous grumble against you?
Life is designed in such a way that it often sends adequate warning signals to us before it plays out. What is your lover constantly complaining about? Do you think other friends have identified the same issue? Do you think something can be done about it? If you feel that your relationship is worth it, then you should work on what you think is the object of the complain.
2. Are there outside influences that are playing subtle roles in facilitating the problem?
I have seen many amazing relationships end up because of meddling from siblings, parents, and external friends. Although, their influence may be genuine and may even be positive in certain instances, one has to be careful to recognize when their influences become poisonous to the relationship. It is always advisable to pay keen attention to outsiders as their influences may come in subtly and are usually detected when it is too late. It is important to discontinue negative external source so as to save the relationship.
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