⏺ I'm going to be blunt. No one cares about you! Part 1

in life •  7 years ago 



No look, I did say in the title that I am going to be blunt. Some of you might try and give justification, saying that that's not true. Yes, I understand maybe your mother or father might care.. Or perhaps your Husband or Wife.. But when I say 'no one', I mean people in life. On top that, I mean life itself.

Life does not care about you.

The reason I am making this topic is because I tend to see people going through life acting like life owes them something.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Life does not care. People around you do not care. I do not care. We all have our own paths to walk, and our own lives to live. People will tell you they care. They will make-out like they will listen to your problems, but let's face it, who wants to listen to other people's problems?

Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying there aren't kind people out there. I love helping people. I have grown lately to get such a warm feeling in contributing to other's.

What I am talking about is expecting help from other's. Far too many people go through life limiting themselves. Living mediocre lives because they blame their surroundings. Try to make excuses, and feel sorry for themselves.

No, I'm not targeting only a few people by saying this, I am talking to 99% of people reading this. I am not ashamed to speak the truth here. I have been told to speak with passion in my content, so that's what I'm doing. This is a big deal to me.
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Hmmm.... I think I know where you're coming from, @enazwahsdarb. Certainly more than just your mother and father, spouse, or children care about you. But yes, in the grand scheme of things, life (other people) doesn't really care about us as individuals. (Or perhaps even not collectively...)

BUT... That's until you make a connection with the unwashed masses of people out there. To the person sitting next to you on the bus with whom you've never spoken? No. Odds are they don't care. But offer them your seat or pick up their dropped glove for them? Well, caring starts to seep in if ever so slowly.

We make connections to ensure our own survival. We make friends. We forge bonds. We grow together with others like ourselves so that there's a safety net over this chasm we call life. Ask a stranger for a helping hand and odds are you'll get one. Not every hand will reach out. A few might even smack you one. But hands will reach out.

With that, I look forward to your next post. And if you need a hand with it, let me know. I'd be glad to help you with it. Because... cough I care about you. ;)

Followed you.

What a beast comment man! Love it.

Yeah, this topic can be a sensitive one to many.. The main message wasn't too much about people caring for one another, but rather for the fact that if you relying on other's to deal with your problems, then you are simply asking for failure.. 'No one cares about you' as in your problems are not other people's problems. Just take a stand for your life, and do whatever it takes.

Again, thanks for that awesome comment. Really well written.

Talk soon.

Maybe no one cares for me but i do care for myself.Love yourself :)
Started following now.

Yeah of course we should love ourselves! :P The point is more for most people wanting handouts from life.

Talk soon.

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You can try all you want.. I will not give up!

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Yh true..!

Enjoyed the open attitude toward something most shy away from discussing. It is actually a reality.

Thank you very much :) I appreciate that you noticed that. I want to bring into the spotlight what nobody wants to open-up about, but everyone is experiencing :)

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Its true and than they say i have the right to get (whatever youre love, money, ect) Thats when i say you have only one right. Thats the right to give. And maybe if you give without expecting or wanting something in return you will see that just giving when you want to makes live a lot easyer. And when you will get some on the way well thats a bonus for you.

Totally :) I love that approach and I take that in direction in my life nowadays. I can definitely verify that it's an amazing feeling. It makes you feel so free and good about yourself.

Thanks for your input. Talk soon.

Make your own destiny... life doesn't oh us anything, you make it 🙌🏼🙌🏼

Short and accurate. Love it bro.

Talk soon.

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Hahaha legit hey! No. One. Cares. :D

Talk soon.

you are right,people these days are to much focussed on themselves. Lots of times when they do care it's when it's getting close to home and they know it could have been them. Lets face it, when push comes to shove the only person you can really rely on is you and nobody else but you, If you don't care about yourself who will?

You pretty much said that flawlessly. Well said! It's totally that. 'When push comes to shove'. We live in a world where people have a bunch of fake, sugar-coated personalities. That is much belief as to why there are so many divorces from marriage. People get to know one personality, but cannot handle the true one.

Talk soon.

My friends know me as being dead honest, I don't sugar coat, ask for my opinion and I will give it to you, not everbody likes it, what you see is what you get, nothing more, nothing less

I'm super pro to that too, so no worries :) What's the point in sugar coating? It's really only a lie to make you feel better, but you're only fooling yourself..

Good approach. Talk soon.

Wake up call for those pretending to be victims :)

I will be releasing a few posts about how to live a happier and meaningful life soon.

Yeah man, it's like a reality check you know..

Sweet, well you can let me know when it's up, and I will support you if I have the time!

Talk soon.

It's up :)

Sweet. I will go check it out for you. I also just posted my latest post.

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please before always take any step make sure its impact good for you and your family.

Yeah exactly :) Definitely, we must also be considerate.

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"People around you do not care. I do not care." - whahaha 😂
True though 😳

Hahaha bro :D I was just being blunt though.

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Hey, it's true 😉

Word up!

It's all about self-responsibility.

Great share.

Awesome comment :) Thanks for that. So true!

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One of the worst things that can happen to you, is when you politely ask someone " How are You?', and they proceed to tell you at Great Length, and you cannot spot the getaway path!

Bro! Right? It's completely inconsiderate when people do that. I mean, we were just being polite, they need to recognize that LOL. I can definitely relate to that :D

Thanks for your comment. Talk soon.

Damn I feel raw energy in your posts! Love your passion! 🔥🖤

It's funny, I imagined you commenting something related to that.. Legit, when I was making this post, I thought about you stopping by. Crazy how life works hey :P

PS. I finally got to replying to your messages on chat! Mission accomplished lol. Talk soon.

You agree. You are absolutely right

Woah! A comment from the princess Miss Dara :D The one and only who doesn't even speak English! :P Good to see you here my friend. Thanks for your comment.

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https://steemit.com/life/@aldentan/how-to-deal-with-hateful-comments-and-angry-people

Reminds me of the time I went viral with an article. The comments were overwhelming, many of which were hateful. The following week, nobody fucking cared about me anymore. Life just goes on. So just care about yourself first. I wrote about it in the link above. Nice on @enazwahsdarb

Yeah man. Well, you just need to understand the mentality to that situation..

People never actually care. Do you really think people care about what's happening in @jerrybanfield's life at home? Probably not. But that's not why he gets all that engagement.

It's just hype. I'm sure he understands that too.

That's why I want to be at the top of the trending tab.. Because people will undoubtedly check out what I have to say, just for it being there. LOL.

I will check out that post for you!

Just forget it and work harder! :) Talk soon.

Just found @jerrybanfield's profile now lol. Following him!

Give me a lodown on what he's about?

Hahaha you hear that @jerrybanfield? :P Giving you some promotion here LOL.

He's basically a guy who has 200k subs on YouTube, and 2 million+ followers on Facebook, and he likes to use very bright lights to light up his face for his green-screen in his videos :P

Haha nah but the guy is legit. He gives great advice, and I think he's the most transparent and ballsy oak I have ever seen in my life.

Talk soon.

Awesomeeeeeeeeeeee @jerrybanfield looking forward to connect.

And that is just the truth

I suppose that's a good thing :) Thanks.

It is my friend it is, great article

Thank you my friend.

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This is spot on, real nice article, short and sweet

Thanks a lot! Appreciated.

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Nice bro @enazwahsdarb

Thanks man! Appreciated.

Talk soon.

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Thank you!

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