Thanks to my renovation I have had to give away keys to my apartment. Okay, I had no choice, workers need to get in when they need to. But I couldn't even imagine how anxious I would feel about it. People coming and going in my private zone, without me controlling it.
For me my home is castle of solitude, safe haven and the most private place on earth. The one place were I can control everything. Not like I'm control freak or anything... When that privacy is compromised it makes me cranky AF.
In this case, family is the worst I'm afraid. I'm the most solitude person in my family. I like to keep things to my self, and I enjoy my own company. That's kinda fucked up situation when your family is full social overload. Even when I live in totally different city, they come and go as they please. And nobody ever bother to call me or give any kind of heads up.
I sleep a lot with my doors unlocked, literally anyone could enter into my house whenever they want. I'm more paranoid about my laptop security than house security.
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It's not about paranoid in this case, that's another story:D but I hate when people intrude to my personal zone, without permission
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I guess then my laptop is my personal zone :)
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It really is to me too. And my phone! I dont let anyone touch it:D
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My phone is always upside down on a table or in my pocket, and sometimes people get unintentionally injured when trying to touch it without my permission.
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Question - how soon will you change your locks when the reno is done?
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Not sooner than immediately:)
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Had neighbors knocking on my door at 10:00 pm so I installed a security light that included a camera and speaker. Next few times they came over - I could see them, and I played a recorded message that said they were being videoed, and I was not available at the time. This ended the visits. I can also see what is happening remotely (my phone) at my front door 24/7. I can see when my Amazon products are delivered, and can check the weather when I am out of town. Great investment for 200 bucks!
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I'm afraid this wouldn't stop my family:D But seems like a great investment tho!
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" And nobody ever bother to call me or give any kind of heads up."
this would totally mess my mood for the rest of the day
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It usually does ! That’s why i’m so cranky bitch😂
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I am sure this could be fixed. would you choose tickling, pinching or spanking as a medicine?:P
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Can i choose only 1!
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they are most effective when used together. So I would recommend at very least 2 of these options...
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Even when I get an unexpected knock on the door my protective instincts go overboard and I get edgy. However I enjoy friends dropping by because thats how I grew up. I tend to respect others privacy more than mine. Simply because I am not super private.
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Even if i know to whom i have given keys and it's like 5 person, still, every single time i hear that key turning in lock sound i get creeps. The adrenaline spike from that is definitely the most effective way to woke up.
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This is why you should own a gun and shoot everyone who looks like they are coming to your house :D
(disclaimer: don't actually do that)
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Haha! I dont want to kill my family, more like educate them to act like normal humans do 😁
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Just shoot with a BB gun, it'll hurt enough to do the trick.
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never had this problem. family never ever visits. It would be nice to have a happy middle ground
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Mun "not today"-kuva kertoo kaiken siitä miten hyvin otan ihmiset elämääni.
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Täytyy myöntää, ihailen tyyliäsi;)
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Arvostan sitä
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Sietääkin, en ihaile montaakaan asiaa.
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