Internet Communication - fake communication?

in life •  5 years ago 

Yes, some people still believe that chatting with virtual friends and lovers is a waste of time.

But other people are convinced that only virtual communication allows people to be real and honest.
In correspondence with your interlocutor you are real what you really want to be. You have time to think and articulate your answer.
Sometimes it also seems to me that our future lies in all this. Already, for most people in this crazy world of opportunity, words are becoming an ineffective way of communication.

Evolution gave it to us, we used it for thousands of years in a row, but then messengers and social networks finally appeared and everything fell into place.


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In life, people behave strangely: sometimes they have a strange faces, sometimes evil faces, sometimes they laugh for no reason, they say stupid things and accidentally offend them with their jokes, and then they don’t know how to get out of these awkward situations.

The new generation has long learned that the dude they see in front of them can be a completely different person on the Web. As a rule, the latter is much bolder, more interesting and smarter. None of them will even think that communicating by correspondence is something fake.

Who will forget these very first real relationships that were entirely in the text box of the messenger? Who will forget how the closest and closest person was a person from another city?

Sometimes it also seems to me that the text is when you want to talk about really important things. And the voice is when in a hurry you need to answer a question, but your fingers froze.

And I do not think that correspondence is something fake. Perhaps someone disagrees with me and now says the opposite, but who will hear him? But you just read my text.

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I do believe you can form real connections online if both people are completely honest. Since the level of trust needs to much higher, in my opinion, to be able to make it work, when compared to someone you're physically in contact with and can see body language etc.

I think the medium of communication is not really the issue but the two people that are trying to connect. Interesting as always lol! I'd say we hit it off pretty well without having met and only communicated on comments

I felt that it was you who would answer this post! it's so cool)
I have never doubted that a person is able to build harmonious communication with other people via the Internet. I understand what you are talking about when you give an example of body language, gestures - this is very important and allows you to more deeply evaluate the interlocutor and understand his inner feelings without words, but people are very strange creatures and the whole problem is always in them)
sometimes we show insufficient empathy for the interlocutor who is next to us and the conversation comes to a standstill. but sometimes we have a wonderful conversation with a person who is on another continent.

LOL Am I that predictable or am I your biggest fan on steemit? Why not both? Yeah I think it really is up to the two people in communication if they can set the ground rules for open and honest communication and both stick to it, I see no issue with how they do it. I think that we're used to a certain way of communication and digital is seen as different but as these habits mature it will become more and more normal in society

Not really)
This thought was like intuition, and I was not mistaken in this. Do you believe in intuition? When I pay attention to it - it always works)
Although, of course, if you were my big fan, then I would be pleased)
Yes, I agree with you. I also think that the simplicity and comfort of communication is built by the efforts of the interlocutors themselves. I hope that in the future people will get away from stereotypes and stop considering visual communication as pampering and fake. Although, perhaps, just not everyone knows so far that you can get more heat from a person you have never seen in reality than from a person sitting next to you. This is a bit strange, sad, but amazing experience.

Lol yes I believe in intuition, the mind works in many ways we're not aware of and we're all here trying to figure out its abilities like any talent we have, you don't just rock up and start being the best you learn and trust in your abilities over time and the same with the mind that's why I think things like intuition cannot be written off.

I agree I think we want to make things as simple as possible so as to not think about it and evaluate things on an individual basis that's why we have these generalisations on how to do things because people want to avoid taking ownership and thinking for themselves.