Hello friends of Steemit, today I wanted to bring you a topic that it has taken me time to accept personally. Indeed, the most important person in your life is you, I am myself, that is why we must become aware of the value of your own life, and that there is nothing more important than yourself. And rest assured my friends, that although this idea may initially sound somewhat selfish and I admit that for me it sounded the same, you should know that there is only one person capable of making you happy or unhappy for life, and that person is you.
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Nobody will accompany you as constantly and tirelessly on the road of life as you do yourself.
Starting from this premise, if you have not yet assumed that you are the most important person in your life, let's try to change our priorities and create a new personal reality; if until today you have spent most of your time, your thoughts and your energy to your partner, your children, your work and even your friends and only if you have a few minutes left over, you allow yourself to think about you It is time to change that and assume once and for all that you are your top priority.
Love yourself, because the love of others will never be enough to satisfy what your soul requires of you.
Many priorities are established from our unconscious, this is because we get carried away by the day to day, acting without realizing what we are doing and what we are investing our time. If this is the case, we must stop along the way, evaluate where we have placed ourselves within your list of priorities and review what things currently occupy the place that you should be occupying in your life.
Remember that only by dedicating yourself to quality time, sufficient energy and giving you the love you deserve, can you build a valuable being that has the ability to give to others and positively impact the world, because if you have shortcomings, you will be unable to offer to others what you do not have yet and in the worst case you will be projecting your bitterness and frustration to those around you.
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This is why having exclusive moments and thoughts for you, is not always being selfish, on the contrary, it is exactly what we should do, because with it we would be cultivating our being to serve the world.
But to this we must be very careful, not to fall into the error of having an immoderate and excessive love for you without caring others ... But if you understand the importance of that self-love, and always work for it. And watch out, we should not leave this alone in words.
Make yourself the most important person in your life.
• Having your sacred moment
• Do not seek the approval of others, seek your own approval.
• Eliminate negative people. That's right, you have to eliminate all those energetic vampires!
• Define your limits in relationships.
• Include leisure time in your life. "Leisure" a word that we sometimes attribute a negative connotation to, but should not be, you must include moments in your life to develop your passions and hobbies, the activities that You like them and they relax you, because they are the ones that recharge you with positive energy, they generate the sensation of rest and allow you to lead a full and happy life.
If you take this into account, things will take a different turn in your life. I'm starting to practice :-D
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A big hug my friends!