"Mature women who are good listeners are more popular" -- don't you think so?
In fact, women who are more cautious when they first meet may be more acceptable to men. But on a second or third date, if you're always passive, men will think "it’s boring with this woman."
With too honest woman together, the men will have fatigue feeling of "must take the initiative".
So, here are the characteristics of the surprisingly popular "Easy-going Woman" :
1. Know proper teasing
Especially on first meeting occasion, such as social gatherings and friends' parties, women who know how to make fun of what men say are popular.
There are two average-looking women, A and B. They went to a blind date party together. Different from A's nervousness, B looked at the self-introduction card of the man and said appropriately, "good taste! Is it really someone in 20s? The advantage column is empty! Please write it well. "
As soon as these words came out, the men with stiff expressions began to laugh and talk happily.
At the end of the party, compared with woman A, woman B received a lot of contact information from men and became the popular king of the party.
Men are just as nervous when they first meet, and it's easier to open up if a woman can initiate a conversation.
Gentle teasing, which resonates with everyone, makes people feel "natural to be with this woman" and this woman will become popular.
2. Specify what you want to do
In the communication with the men, the woman who knows to offer what she wants to do and can express her opinion clearly will make the men feel easy to get along with.
For example, on a day off he would arrange a distant appointment, but she would be irritable because of the fatigue of work. Instead of explicitly saying that she wanted to rest, she waited for the man to notice her attitude, and most of the men were like, "huh? Have I done anything bad?" Guys get depressed.
If so, the woman should say to the men at the beginning that "recently very tired, the weekend want to spend leisurely at home." In this way, the guy will be more willing to understand you and care about you.
3. Do what you like
For example, when shopping on a date, some women will miss the store they want to see because "it is not good for him". But in fact, in the men's view, "rarely to buy things, so there is no sense... ".
Women don't be too polite, like the store on swaggering into, you are happy, he will be happy with you together.
Of course, using own pace as an excuse to push the people around you beyond what's needed is another matter.
Being curious and having a hobby doesn't hurt anyone. Instead of saying, "I'm going to look at a different store," he might be more accommodating depending on the situation.