Finally, the time when you lay down your head on your pillow, now, the day is officially over. Is it?
Being in the comfort of what probably is the most important room in your house, since humans have improved their homes by building a safe place to rest, your bedroom works like the cave where you can finally hide from predators and rival tribes.
In this very special room, you can forget about everything and have a perfect night of sleep. Well, you could, if you just could stop to think about the next day, your boss, your bills, the things you forgot to do, or maybe you are those who pray for God let you win the lottery, because if you won you would help people from around the world and you would invest and spend the money wisely and so one. (or maybe that’s just me). The point is, I bet that you at least sometimes let your mind drift into the problems instead of focusing on sleep.
But this place also has an important rule on how your day begins
You wake up. With an alarm clock or not (damn, I do) you are ready to stand up and say loudly:
I’m ready for the day! Yoo Hooo!!!
Nop. That’s not the case right? (If it is, I hate you) We always think something like “Oh no” and that’s it. Starting the day thinking in what this shit called life is planning to fuck with me again is totally normal, everybody sometimes goes through this (I think, fuck, I hope so, it can’t be just me, c’mon) and then, you get ready for the day, because you cannot just stay in bed for all day long after all. (Actually, I could, but my bills insist on disagreeing).
Your bedroom is where your day begins and ends, so it can make your days much better or worst…
The key is seeing it as an opportunity, both, when it ends, because no matter what happened in your day if you are going to bed at least your survived, and when you wake up, because another day is beginning and maybe this will be a better one (Or not, I mean, shit happens) and you have learned a new thing. (Ok, I'm gonna cut the cliche crap from now, sorry)
But what I want you to understand is that this is the room that has this important rule in your life, damn, our days begin and end in the same place, it must be a good place for you, otherwise, your days will start bad and end badly…
But how to make your bedroom a better place?
Your bedroom is where you stop to think about how was your day, you mentally plan the next day, your bedroom knows all your secrets, your secrets sleep there.
So, make it play in your favor. If is necessary replace your bed, sheets, pillowcases, maybe try a new decoration, always keep a good book next to your bed, a very good tip, is having something from your childhood in your bedroom, something that reminds you of who you are and from where you came from, and also hang a picture or poster of your life goal or dream, so you can always remember your path you seeking…
Thank you so much for reading, feel free to share on your favorite social media and see you next post.
Stay cozy, Jonatan.