Privacy as a factor in your success

I see my self as one of many that ask them selves , why i'm not lucky like other people or why all my hard work and tries don't come with the desired results ?
From my point of view when I see success stories of some people they share with us their success after they reached their goals , then they tell how they got their and achieved their goals , that is the secret of success for me , keep your dreams to your self until you reach them , then share your success with others ......... the moral point here is some people have negative attitude, they can frustrate you and put your fire out just because they think you dream big ,
that also reminds of saying we tell here in egypt and it says "if you to keep your candle lit, keep it away from the wind"

as if the candle is your goal and the wind is all the negative energy around
so in the end keep your goals to your self and only share your success ....... be a role model
thank you , see you soon