I recently joined one of the Matrimonial Website because I was frustrated with my life and entirely for fun. I added essential details where I mentioned my salary (Close to 10 Lakh) and said my height, weight, family etc. and my caste. Well, I'm from a backward class, and well, I filled in details where I mentioned how caste is not a big deal for me. And I left my number on my profile, and I got messages like:-
Hi, I earn 6 Lakh a year, but I can be a potential match for you because I'm from a Higher Caste than you, you will feel privileged. Trust me girl, there is nothing more a girl can ask for (Yes moron, maybe a man with broad thinking)
If your family can pay decent dowry (50 Lakh cash, 2 Cars and 1 Cr worth property), I will marry you. (And Btw, that guy earns 8 Lakh PA)
Another guy who earns like 1cr a year but he asked me to stop working and help in taking care of the family And this guy is just a 12th pass out.
And the guys I found decent were someone who wanted Fair, an upper caste servant or I guess their family was looking for something like that. Overall, the experience was so bad that I shifted to Tinder again. How hard it is to find a guy with a decent salary, decent job and liberal parents and well, you know, is interested in building something.