How To Deal With A HeartBreak For Men

in life •  6 years ago 

Gentlemen, If you are dealing with heartbreak

Keep going. Some cold hard facts

-There is no "one"
-Your ex is gonna end up with someone else
-Your future should not have been built around a woman in the first place
-Pull yourself together

Yes, shit hurts. It can hurt BAD

But being a fucking emotional wreck gets tired real quick

The fact that you based your entire happiness and self esteem around a relationship and have NOTHING else valuable to you in life

That was your mistake

Apparently quite a few got broken up with because I've been getting the same message for 2 weeks now

"Bro, I don't know what to do, Im a mess, I can barely function"

FUCKING GO DEADLIFT AND STOP BASING YOUR EXISTENCE AROUND FEMALE VALIDATION

Guess what,

There's always another girl,

There's always someone thats younger and hotter

And unless you're getting divorce raped and/or have a psycho ex stalking you trying to kill you

YOURE FINE.

Embrace the emotional numbness for awhile

There's ton of amazing women.

Yeah, read that again.

There are LOTS AND LOTS OF AWESOME WOMEN

You can find another one.

If you've unfucked yourself and made yourself into a Man of Gravity, it shouldnt be that difficult

Love is not a finite resource, its Infinite

Do not be an emotional 13 year old girl crying about how you'll never be able to love or be close with anyone ever again

Life breaks us all, welcome to earth

Shit hurts and no one cares and you die at the end.

Stop treating relationships like a Zero Sum game that you "won at" because you were "so lucky" to find a girl who "chose you" and you cant imagine why she'd be with you

That's most of your attitudes whether you want to admit it or not

Thats garbage

"Havent YOU ever had your heartbroken?"

Sure I have

But my ability to love is not determinate by a relationship

My ability to Love is INFINITE because Love is a quality of BEING

You LIVE IT OUT

There is nothing to subtract from

Actually now that I think about this, Most of you probably need to work on your Souls

A Finite love paradigm is fucking misery.

No wonder you feel so depressed

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