Are You Too Nice to Your Own Good?

Have you ever met anyone who said they were too nice? If so, then I'm sorry to inform you that they probably aren't really that nice at all. You see, if you're not going to be a nice person in order to get the things you want or need, then why should people treat you nice? Do you really deserve that kind of favor? How can a person be too nice to someone? Why do people do that and how can you stop being such a nice guy?

Yes, it's a sad thing when you meet someone who is so nice and act as if you wouldn't have a problem with them and still think highly of them. I'm sure there are some really nice guys out there but for the most part, all the nice guys are one bit mean and that little voice in their head just isn't a nice person. In fact, a lot of the meanest people are nice people pretending to be one but hiding behind their nice facade. But hey, it's a tough world out there, we live in tough times and we got to take it on the chin and face it; it's life.

It's funny how people act like they have to be one thing but in reality, they don't. They might be nice, but what they're really doing is saying "I'm nice but I'm not very good so I'm going to pretend to be something I'm not so that I can get what I want." That's the true meaning of being a mean person and that's not a good place to be in life. Are you someone who really believes that? Can you imagine what it would be like to walk up to someone and say, "Well, I'm not that nice of a person," and see their eyes go back to their head as they shake it in disgust and make faces at you?

You would probably never get anywhere because you're just being mean to yourself. And if you were nice to others, they wouldn't like you anyway because you're a phony. Don't fool around; being a fake is only attractive to people who can't do anything right. So instead of being a mean person, be a person with integrity and try to help people improve themselves and who are trying to make things work, then you can be nice. In that case, aren't you a nice person too? Aren't you just a little bit nicer than those jerks who act like they're so much better than everyone else?

I can understand how you might feel; it's hard being a nice person when you know that everything is not right and the world seems unfair. You're probably thinking, "If I'm not a mean person, then what is it about nice people that makes them so mean?" The truth is, everyone has their own sweet spots. Some people are so nice that it might seem like they're trying to be mean to everyone at all times.

If you think you are, "way to nice to your own good," I have some news for you: you are not being liked! The world doesn't like nice people any more! It's time for you to learn how to be more likeable so you can start making some real change in your life, starting with yourself.