Don’t postpone meetings with loves ones

in life •  7 years ago 

In a world full of people, driving insanely towards their goals and ambition whether it’s for the purpose of money or serving family, we often neglect the first and foremost duties that have been naturally assigned to us. These duties include spending time with your family, your loved ones.


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Taking some time out to get to know them and to help them in any and every way possible. The word ‘duties’ is used here because in case of family, people don’t think enough. The only duty they consider is of their job or business, thoughts of the family don’t lead even close to this word. But you ought to remember not to miss or postpone a meeting with your loved ones. There are a bunch of reasons why you shouldn’t miss these meetings and the benefits of sitting together, we’ll be mentioning a few of them below.

You may have heard the saying ‘Friends like family’ but never ‘Family like friends’, it’s because when it comes to conversing pure love, relation, attention, earnestness and allegiance, the family is what matters the most. It is the decree of nature. Nevertheless, loved ones not only include family but friends as well, anything that affronts you or you want sentiments of, you can open heartedly discuss in the get-togethers with your loved ones.


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This is one of the greatest benefits of meeting with your friends and family. You get to tell them about your day, ask them about theirs, joke around, talk seriousness, discuss politics, sports, sarcasm and ask for their advice and advises as you know they can never do you wrong.

Science has proven that time spent with loved ones essentially has verified to be quite a stress reliever. Because believe it or not, the more you indulge in your job, the more you’re stressful. Instead of taking pills for releasing your stress and doing other various things, you ought to spend time with your loved ones and experience the feeling of contentment. You won’t be disappointed in doing so.

At first, it definitely is hard and requires much devotion and thoughtfulness, everyone at the end gets exhausted, eventually the next meetings keep sliding away and being put off. One key thing to remember during this time is that if you put too much effort in the commencement, of doing anything, you get tired at the conclusion and you stop taking interest as much. Being moderately tranquil, unruffled and chill towards any situation only brings out the best. Moderation brings nothing but glee, bliss and gratification in every case. So remember to follow this rule when you arrange a gathering or when you are to attend one. This way, you’ll even be more excited and look forward to next meetings; instead of postponing them.


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Sitting together with loved ones will improve your mental health as well as give you a new perspective on things you want and need to hear. It will improve your manners and communication skills, bring out confidence in you and teach you lessons that you may have never learned from any institute or even your own experience. So do not try to overlook and snub gatherings with your loved ones. It is always for your own benefit as well as bringing out the best and worst in you.

Worst as in, bringing out the ‘true you’ so you are not straightway arbitrated rather taken care of.
To be successful among your fellows, you have to be proactive and not reactive, according to Steven R.Covey.

These gatherings give a chance to elucidate prospects, rejoice endeavors, strengthen communication and teacher one another as well as solve glitches and difficulties, build pledge and obligation and solve various other issues.

Gatherings where kids enjoy their own play land and food, adults can sit down and talk about meaningful life. These kind of meetings are basically your doorway to success in a way that when you’re busy in your daily job or school, on one hand, you get to have a fun time with your loved ones. And on the other hand, you get to know of others’ goals and determinations, try to make yours higher or share your achievements. This way, even you can work better on your own goals and make a name.


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Life excluding of loved ones can be quite tiring for most people. These forms of gathering will bring out positivity and freshness in the air. So, try to avoid postponing congregations with your loved ones as much as possible. Because, you have to remember, in order to grow wise and experienced, to learn from your mistakes and to achieve, we all need help. The best help is obviously from those who are beloved to us. And who genuinely care about us. Cherish these people and be grateful always.

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Yes, we often take these moments for granted. In this 'go go go' world, it seems like you stick out like a sore thumb unless you're too busy for something. Gotta spend more time with family and truly be in the present.

@jansher Having recently lost my sister to cancer, I think on this often. We lived in different cities, though we talked somewhat frequently. But as I was helping her in hospice, I realized just how important quality time is with family. Thanks for the great post.

The Tree of Life, or Etz haChayim (עץ החיים) has upvoted you with divine emanations of G-ds creation itself ex nihilo. We reveal Light by transforming our Desire to Receive for Ourselves to a Desire to Receive for Others. I am part of the Curators Guild (Sephiroth), through which Ein Sof (The Infinite) reveals Itself!

Muy buena. A veces podemos llegar rápido a una meta, pero solitario y vacíos. Con la Familia, amigos y seres queridos, puede ser más lento, pero el camino es más entretenido y con un hombro amigo para los momentos difíciles.

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usually happens that mechanics comes to dominate our lives, everything is programmed and the true happy moments, the true learning and life itself is sustained in an eternal now that flows naturally without any obstacles.

It is urgent and indispensable to learn to live

The family should be the most important thing for us, those blood ties are impossible to untie.
Spend as much time as possible with them. strengthen your spirit, esteem and give you strength, to face adversity

The quote says it all.

Life without friends is like a garden without flowers.

Sadly for many life without friends is a reality these days. Just like the relatively new phenomenon of enormous stretches of farmland that doesn't have a single flower.
It's unnatural for only one crop to use up such enormous stretches of land and also it is unnatural for a human being to be alone for too long, interaction with others is of utmost importance and this too counts for both examples.

Unfortunately a lot of us don't learn the value of this until later in life and it's difficult to restore ties with family that have been let go.

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