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 People want to be successful, they're exploring the secrets of success, and it's probably easier than you think, because O.G Mandino found that there's a fine line between those who are successful -- Olympic athletes, business executives, astronauts, government leaders, and others.Mandiano calls it "the margin of success."This edge is not the result of special circumstances or high intelligence, of superior education or superhuman talent, or of luck."The key to success is attitude," mandiano notes.Mandiano points out that there are many elements of a successful attitude.But the most important thing is to have a good mindset.To do this, you must follow three important maxims.(1) be responsible for your actions.What we get paid depends on what we contribute.You are sure to be praised or humiliated for your place in life.Responsible people focus on the shackles that bind them, declaring their independence at critical moments.Joe sorrettino grew up in a downtown neighborhood, was the head of a gang of hooligans and spent time in a juvenile correctional facility.But he kept in mind a seventh-grade teacher's trust in his academic ability.He felt that his only hope of success was to leave his poor high school history behind and finish school.So he returned to night school at age 20, went on to college and graduated with honors.He went on to take all of harvard law school's courses and become an excellent judge of the Los Angeles juvenile court.None of this would have happened if Joe soletino hadn't had the courage to change his fate.(2) in Shakespeare's famous play Hamlet, the minister polonius tells his son: "it is essential that you be true to yourself;Be true to yourself, and let no man deceive you, as the night follows the day.Polonius is urging his son to live according to his strongest beliefs and abilities -- to see the world differently.However, the rights of others must be respected.  

 Most people, however, find themselves in a state of hesitation.How do you do not waste your life?How do you know if you've chosen the right career or the right goal?Instead of having parents, teachers, friends, or economists make long-term plans for us, find out for yourself what we are "good" at.The secret of life is to manage one's own strength.In the frame of life, it is terrible for a man to stand in the wrong place -- to make a living by his weaknesses rather than his strengths.So it's important to stay interested in a particular skill, even if it's less elegant, and it can be a great fortune to change your fate.The same is true when choosing a career. You don't have to consider how much money it will bring you, whether it will make you famous or not.This is because managing your strengths can add value to your life, and managing your weaknesses can devalue your life."A baby in the wrong place is crap," franklin said.That's what it means.(3) don't escape reality -- the key to success is adaptability.Under pressure, many people become depressed and lose their desire and pursuit of life.Alcohol and other anti-anxiety drugs can temporarily reduce our fear of failure and suffering, but they also prevent us from learning to cope with the stress.One of the best ways to cope with life's stresses is simply to accept them as normal.Life's adversities and failures, if we view them as normal feedback, help us build up our immunity against those harmful responses.Remember: success in life grows not by chance, but by reason.Their quest for success depends on an endless struggle between their potential and the demands of life.All in all, losers beg for opportunities. Winners try to create the future.