You did not understand what I was saying have you never seen Star Wars or did you just not understand what it was trying to get you to see in the real world forgiveness is useless if you don't have the ability to destroy them because they have no incentive to honor the agreement your life will only get worse unless you learn the dark side and use the light side to control it because without enough self control everyone will be afraid of your emotions and without enough dark side power everyone will destroy your life because they don't respect you and you will let them