Mind your words

If you want to be a successful entrepreneur you have to be a positive person then you have to stop moaning and saying how bad and cruel the world around you is. You have to embrace the present and look forward to new and better future.

That is how it should be, but we all know that life looks less like an old black and white TV and is more familiar to a whole pallet of colours. That is why it is hard to keep your mouths shut, while certain things happen.

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In my life it was the simple moment that led to a realization that changed the way I perceived how poor and meaningless is to cry everytime something 'bad' happens to you.

I was just getting into a car feeling quite cold. Seconds were dividing me from telling everyone how it is likely that I will get sick. Fortunately, the other thought came to my mind and changed my next step. I realized that there is another person in the car that has way more complexed problem and is not running around with a loudspeaker in her hand yelling how bad she feels. I realized that my cold feet might not even lead to me being sick, it can be just five minutes discomfort. After you think about it in such way, you realized that an issue is not an issue. It is such a pitty that it is not even worth mentioning.

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Nowadays, I try to mind my words and keep my speech positive, giving other people joy and help.

At the same time, I do not want to say that speaking about serious problems is a bad thing. It is a necessity to talk over you problems with someone who you can trust and rely on. But, I believe that feeling cold or missing a bus is nothing compared to someone being terminally ill, to feeling a loss of your parent or life partner.

Be brave, be positive.

Give joy, give help.

Mind your words and make yourself happier thorough taking a responsibility over your words.