Convincing yourself or others, both can be difficult, but for different reasons. Let's analyze the two a bit:
Why is it hard to convince yourself:
- Complexity: The human mind is very complex. We have many feelings, thoughts and desires working simultaneously in us. Sometimes all these things get mixed together and we don't even understand ourselves.
- Change: The human mind is always changing. What we think today, we cannot think tomorrow. This variability also makes understanding itself difficult.
- Fear of the unknown: The fear of seeing one's own inner weaknesses or mistakes often leads us astray from the path of self-understanding.
- Social Pressure: Society's expectations and ideals force us to hide our true identity.
Why is it difficult to convince others:
- Differences: Every person is different. We all have different experiences, thoughts and perspectives. This difference makes it difficult to understand others.
- Expression: Many cannot express their thoughts clearly. It takes a long time to understand the feelings hidden deep in their minds.
- Preconceptions: We have certain preconceived notions about others. These ideas may not be accurate at times and hinder understanding of others.
- Lack of Empathy: Without enough empathy for others' situations and feelings, it becomes difficult to understand them.
Which is more difficult?
The answer to this question may vary from person to person. Some people find it more difficult to understand themselves, others to understand others. But generally understanding yourself is more difficult than understanding others. Because it takes a lot of introspection to understand one's own mind better than others.
How to understand yourself and others?
- Introspection: Try to listen to your own mind. Accept all your love, hate, fear, hope.
- Empathy: Listen to others and try to consider the matter from their point of view.
- Ask Questions: Ask yourself and others questions. Keep looking for answers to questions.
- Observe: Observe behavior of self and others.
- Study: Study about psychology, philosophy etc.
Finally:
There is no easy way to understand yourself and others. It is an ongoing process. But if you try patiently, one day you will succeed in understanding yourself and others.