When someone needs sometimes to find a guidance, we should always remember that we can stand by ourselves since the early years we started to walk on this earth.
Feeling empty, we are full of a power we don't realize because we occasionally do what this power really mean for us. This great power is the power to empower others. The great secret of leadership is to empower others!
Empowering others, we realize then the great power we have, just by giving a little help you receive always more power, but this power itself doesn't matter elsewhere it has something to be done.
So don't try to catch the power of others, instead, just give all the power you have. When you think you don't have any power, you are wrong. Except if you're extremely sick, power can't never leave you alone. All day long you know you have thousands of thinking and you need to make a choice. And thinks that are left unsaid mean exactly as nothing. So, that way, you can imagine that the power is lost.
Why ? Because you didn't make it something for someone else. Your power of thinking is lost if it is always connect to poor reactions or bad ideas. But when you connect your ideas to the power of your mind it simply works as it does.
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Reading, breathing, smiling!
To feel good at writing something requires a lot of trials and errors, and a lot of good readings too. You know that words are not exactly as they sound in your mind. This is because you have a mental image of what you think that is not directly related to how you feel them, and there's a difference of nature between writing and speaking.
How many times, you thought this is a great idea, but once the time to put on a white sheet and your idea became suddenly different or the idea you had doesn't sound exactly the same you thought it sounded for you before. This is related to a problem called "dialectic". Your idea is in some ways the sign of another idea or something related to something that names your idea.
You need a good idea ! But you feel that you're ideas are always the same. So you need to come back to the first step: reading.
Breathing is the second step once your mind is plenty of ideas, this is meditation. You need to relax to let the happiness in. Then comes the time of creativity and you can smile by looking of what you have accomplished what ever it is.