They don’t want us to succeed

in life •  7 years ago 

When you have an extraordinary thought that you are certain will be a win, the principal thing you need to do is tell the entire world. You more often than not begin with the general population who are nearest to you, for example, your family and companions.

You would surmise that these individuals who hold such a dear place in your life would need you to succeed and would pull for you however this isn't generally the case. In spite of the fact that they may really need you to succeed or say that they do, something unique is going ahead in their subliminal.

Where it counts, regardless of whether they know it or not, something registers that truly startles them. They understand that in the event that you oblige your new thought and you are fruitful, you will change and thusly, so will your relationship. In the event that you go for a higher degree, you might be more instructed and they'll feel that you won't have your scholarly discussions with them any longer.

On the off chance that you begin an eating routine, they might not have those snackfest pigouts that you have each Saturday night at the films. In the event that you begin an effective business, you might be excessively occupied for them or far more detestable, begin to associate with a higher class of individuals.

Without knowing it, they will begin to discover a wide range of imperfections with your thought and endeavor to persuade you not to proceed with it. They may appear to be steady however they may likewise be somewhat reluctant with their help.

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These loved ones can truly slaughter any drive you have for progress and afterward you will be stuck in a similar place that you have dependably been with zero chance of developing and trying the impossible.

Fortunate individuals don't as a rule have this issue since they influence companions or as of now to associate with individuals that are the place they need to be. In the event that they need to be rich, they will hang out with rich individuals. On the off chance that they need to be fit as a fiddle, they will hang out at a rec center.

I don't recall who said this yet there was one well off man who said that in the event that he at any point lost all his cash, he would endeavor to get himself a decent suit and after that go hang out at a nation club with rich individuals.

When you have an awesome thought and you are extremely persuaded, endeavor to remain quiet about the thought for a tad while you set up together an arrangement and make sense of how you will do it. On the off chance that you educate anybody regarding it, ensure they are somebody who is as of now where you need to be.

All things considered, in the event that you get guidance, the individual who is now there is the best individual to get it from. Simply recollect, never accept guidance from somebody who has never effectively done what you need to do. In the event that you accept their recommendation, you will wind up precisely where they are.

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People are scared and tend to make mistakes. That does not mean they don't love you and want what's best for you. They are just wrong, but aim well. Good for you that you follow your own will, just remember we are humans too. We can also make mistakes ( god knows I made some)...

I've personally experienced that with my mother and grandparents. I finished studies of International Sales and Marketing but decided to go with music and psychology as I've found my passion there. And I started to talk about it, share my passion but what I was getting back: "There is no way you can do something with it." "You will most likely fail." I guess some people would get so disappointed that they would probably quit but I have remained following my passions no matter what because I was so sure about it. And over time by showing results I have started to change their mentality. My message here is: do things in life that YOU like but not what others (in this case your loved ones) would prefer you to do. Your life is not theirs life, it's your life and you are fully responsible for it. :) In most cases parents try to infuse their passions which they did not accomplish themselves in their lives expecting that their children will. But children have their own lives and passions, right?

Thank you for your post @journeyoflife ! We are in the same page. I have no doubt my blogs can give you VALUE too. Followed and upvoted.

Thsts why i am a hermit. I dont like bring around people for the most part.

thank you journeyoflife.
we all think someone comes and he will change our life. but in my experience, no one can change your life. If you want to change your life you have to change your attitude. your attitude will change your life.

such a true​ wording with a great piece of guidance​​. keep sharing your life experiences​ with​ us like that. stay blessed <3

thank you for this inspirative article.
Wishing you a good day :)

Our thoughts makes up our life

Very nice motivation my friend

Terharu...
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Great Post!
Instead of working on our imperfections we should be working twice as hard on our strengths. Steem on :)

That is why those who can’ keep up with your changes need to learn about open mindedness and altruism. Until they learn you really need to do it on your own as what you have just said. Thanks for sharing.

"Know the myself"
"When you have an extraordinary thought that you are certain will be a win, the principal thing you need to do is tell the entire world. "
You have wrotted this words. Where I find out true theme for my life. thanks.
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you are gratte information life

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sorry mam

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