How to overcome fear in life

in life •  7 years ago 

This four-letter word, fear has crippled many and has rendered destinies. No matter how tough you are, there is no doubt that you have experienced fear in one form or the other.

Most of the times, fear arises as a result of specific uncertainties about something and prevents us from taking the actions that would help us attain a particular level or outcome. Consequently, our self-esteem diminishes and this, in turn, further holds us back from reaching out to the next goal, and so on and so forth. That is how we allow fear to stop us from reaching our best in all ramifications and aspects of life.

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But you can overcome this feeling of anxiety. Fear is not a product of life but is generated only in your mind. Fear usually wells up in our minds, and we compound the fear by feeding it with unnecessary garbage, which may be as a result of past experiences or encounters, assuming that it is the future.

If you want to succeed in anything in life, you must learn to overcome fear. To have success in anything, you need to buckle down and work. The future belongs to people who are impervious to fear and are willing to take risks to achieve their dreams.

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Here are the steps which will help you in overcoming fear in your life.

Identify


This is the first step you need to take. You must find out or identify the cause of the fear and define it accordingly. Ask yourself the question, What exactly am I afraid of? What is that thing that I fear? What are the problems that I am facing? When you have finally pinpointed the reasons making you afraid or caging you in fear, the next thing to do is to ask yourself, If I don’t do anything about this fear, will my life improve? What will happen if I do nothing?

Bring up as many reasons as you can to why you must prevail over that fear that is limiting you. This will give you the emotional leverage you need to take decisive actions that will get rid of the fear.

Fire up your imagination


This is where you start imagining how your life will look like if you have no fear for the future. This is where you pattern your actions towards what you want to achieve and the steps to follow. In order words, you will have clarity about what you would love to accomplish.

Clarify your fear triggers


The fear that you nurse may have arisen as a result of an experience you had in the past. You need to be able to identify this so that you don’t accidentally trigger the fear again.

Transform and Execute


Take action to transform your life. Imagine life without anything hindering your actions or movements. Then go ahead and implement the activities that will take you to that desired level in life, entirely free of any encumbrance of fear that used to hold you back.

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In conclusion, overcoming fear is not something that will happen overnight. But by taking little steps in the right direction, you will end up getting to your destination in life.

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There is nothing to fear, but fear itself. And clowns.

Great tips man

Motivational post @jwolf

Overcoming fear is the most important step in achieving goals in our life. Without overcoming, we can't reach any goal.
Thanks for such a nice post.

But the solution to fear is always facing it. Face the fear and fear disappear is true. However, there are pre-requisites involved to avoid any permanent damage in this regard.

Very informative post @jwolf. Thumbs up.

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Controlling our emotions can definitely help eliminate fear in social settings. (Non threatening ways)
Also facing your fears head on helps, heading right into them makes you stronger.
Thinking of the worst possible situations you could ever face can be a benefit in this regard also.

Would love to hear all your thoughts on my post about overcoming FEAR HERE

Very well said and this step is the key to overcome it. You fail to identify the problem and it stays the same forever and your situation worsens:

This is the first step you need to take. You must find out or identify the cause of the fear and define it accordingly. Ask yourself the question, What exactly am I afraid of? What is that thing that I fear? What are the problems that I am facing? When you have finally pinpointed the reasons making you afraid or caging you in fear, the next thing to do is to ask yourself, If I don’t do anything about this fear, will my life improve? What will happen if I do nothing?

Our fears and overcoming them are the great steps we ought to take in our lives. The points stated are really good and would be very helpful in helping me over my fear. I love your conclusion so much. Thanks for sharing this with us. It's so helpful.

Welll experience very right . I do feel that fear is just a emotion which actually exist in physical world just exist in our mind just like a ghost. Yes to overcome it, the best way is to face it.

Hii @jwolf, nice message conveyed through your article.

Fear is something everyone faces, and in some cases it can even help keep you safe. There are times when fear may interfere in your daily life, however stay positive and face it with bravery and full confidence.

Well written...so impactful

Motivational post for many this is truly awesome you are doing amazing things..

Wonderful article. Motivates a lot.

This post has received a 3.49 % upvote from @booster thanks to: @jwolf.

i guess everyone should read this fine post so cool for everyone !!!

I'm really afraid of heights and small spaces.. thanks for sharing sir.

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time to break the barriers of fear and move a step forward thanks for sharing this amazing post :)

Nice write on fear thanks for sharing

Excellent post you shared the very important aspect of it very important for all of us to overcome fear !

That is a quality article right here. :)