The truth in life you have to learn to accept it.

in life •  7 years ago 

Nothing lasts forever in life. We will only have a young age and then we will grow old. We will love, we will lovelorn or lose the one we love. We will live and die ...

Life contains a lot of things: fun, sad, magical, desperate. But life is never easy for anyone. There are so many harsh truths that no one wants to accept, but it persists and forces us to face. With life, we have no way back.

Here some of the bitter truths of life, which you should probably know. Understanding these life facts will help to live a better and happier life, at least a better life than the one you’re living at the present moment. 

The people you love will also have a day away from you forever.

This may sound cruel but you have to accept that the people you know, the people you love will not be with you forever. So you can not avoid feelings of loss, sadness, pain when they leave.

Parents, grandparents, friends - you can not tell when they will leave you. When was the last time you called your parents? Pay attention to the people you love as soon as possible because they are the most important and meaningful part of this life.

It is you who can make your life meaningful.

Your thoughts and actions directly affect your life. To have a meaningful life, it depends on how you choose.

You do not necessarily have to join a peace army or food aid organization in the world to bring meaning to life. It is because we are always focused on things that we do not achieve and what we want so we often have the feeling of life too bland, empty.

 Expectations always hurt.

Expectations hurt, Period. Life was meant to be lived freely not with full of unrealistic expectations.

If you desire/expect something, make sure that you work hard enough to turn that into a reality sooner or later all by yourself.

Never expect anything out of someone.

You can expect things from only one person, on the whole, earth, and it is – YOU!

Life sometimes like a game, please enjoy.

Why in life you always have to worry, worry about something terrible going on? Remember, this life is for you to learn and to experience.

Need to think about life as simple as a game, to decide what you want to do, to understand the rules of the game and progress. You will not be able to achieve anything or be successful if you fear too much without daring to start trying. Have you ever heard of a person becoming a professional player who has never set foot on grass?.

Everything will be over.

Nothing lasts forever in life. We will only have a young age and then we will grow old. We will love, we will lovelorn or lose the one we love. We will live and die.

Everybody's life goes through the process of being alive, being loved, succeeding, failing, and facing death. No one is an exception. Instead of being discouraged by this obvious truth, live joyfully, excitedly and even gratefully for life. Try to think, if everything goes on forever, what makes them special? Time and the end make up the value of many things. We need to cherish everything we have.

 Make the romance even the smallest thing.

Only when we understand that everything will come and end at a certain moment, we know how to cherish everything in this life. All will be beautiful if we take the time to observe.

Try to go to work or school in a different way each day, lie down on the grass and watch the flowing clouds or the bright stars in the sky. See the world with romantic eyes and you will see many miracles around you. Give yourself a stress-free day that will not make you tired and enjoy life.

 You cannot make everyone happy.

Whatever you do, wherever you go, there will always be someone who will be unhappy with you. They might have a valid reason for it or might not, but its not something that you should care about.

Learn to accept that you cannot make everyone like you, just be yourself, and let the one come into your life who is ready to accept you just the way you are.

Moreover being true about your character will make sure that you never have to fake your emotions.

Find another way or stop complaining.

Most of us have or will meet someone who does not do anything but always complain about life because it does not want them. Either you change our lives or you face disappointment. So why not change when you ourselves do not like that? If you are not honest with ourselves, you will have to accept that you will never be good.

The truth is that people who complain often do not change, even making things stagnant, stuck in place. It is essential that you always believe that you can find a solution. If not, you will do nothing but lament useless duty.

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This remains me of the serependity prayer.
God, please give me the strength to accept the things I can't change, the courage to change those which I can and the wisdom to differentiate between the two.
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Do Not Worry. Pray. Good luck.
Please give me the strength to accept the things I can't change, the courage to change those which I can and the wisdom to differentiate between the two.

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" you die if you worry and you die if you don't, so why worry? "

~ My Dads.

Father's advice is very important to our lives.

yeah , he died a couple of years ago - and being as objective as I can - as his son,obviously- But I am very good at objectivity

  • he was one of the wisest people I know ( other people said similar things without knowing him like I did ) - if i listened to him when I was young, would have saved a lot time. - as he said when I was pointing out to him how' clever I am ' - "aye, hope I know as much you do, when I get to 60- (a few years away) , as you do at 21" - he was very , very , good good. lmao
    love him to bits.

Surely your dad is a great person and you too. <3

Do not worry, pray. Good luck.
Please give me the strength to accept the things I can't change, The courage to change those which I can and the wisdom to differentiate between the two.

Good post ! I like your philosophy.. One needs simplicity and Happiness in their life.... Follow back if you like my comment

Your comment is very interesting I enjoyed it

  ·  7 years ago Reveal Comment

Interesting post...

Thank You.!