Journey of finding Myself : Part#1

Hi friends,

I want to share my experiences which I have learnt from this book . This book is full of real life examples which I have implemented on myself and it actually worked . Earlier, my life was going directionless so many hardships, disappointments due to my ill behavior which was not accepted by anyone . When my life was going clueless , one of my friend suggested to start reading books and he bought me this book " HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE" .

When he suggested me this I started reading like any other book. But when I started I could not move my eyes off . In just few pages, I realized that this is what I actually needed . Though, I have not completed all the chapters of this book. However , Every chapter is worth reading and teaches you something new .

The book starts with first chapter " YOU CAN NOT WIN AN ARGUMENT". There is irony in this statement . It means that you can not win anything by indulging in arguments . During my youth, I have always been argumentative because of this bossy behavior I have lost so many people . As a result of all this , and from this chapter I have learned that there is only way under this heaven to get the best of an argument- that is to avoid it . Avoid as you avoid lot of things which you don't like . You can't win an argument because if you lose it, you lose it and if you win it , you lose it. WHY? Because by argumenting you have made him feel inferior . You have hurt his pride. Therefore, you can only win an argument by loosing it . Avoid arguments and get pride.This is what I have from this chapter.