Learn To LOVE Being Alone!

in life •  7 years ago 

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As technology accelerates, I find that we are becoming increasingly lonely. It's sad, Humans are very social animals, and yet we willingly cut ourselves off from people to spend time looking at our phones.
Many of us can't seem to handle being alone,

Even though there are times when we have to. It seems though these days, Many people have become somewhat clingy to the people they are close to.
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It Allows you to be yourself Fully

When you are alone, you can be yourself. Fully! You may be lucky enough to have people in your life that you can be yourself around, but I feel like there's always a little holding back.

You Can Think Deeply

Other people are always so distracting, and I find that when I have a tough decision to make, I like to sit back and think critically about things. And weigh every option and angle. That way I can fully understand the implications of my decision.

Life throws a lot of choices at us, And at the end of the day If we pick the wrong one. Sometimes we'll end up regretting it years down the road.
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You Can Have Just As Much Fun Alone, As with other people!

So many people overestimate their ability to enjoy things with others. Sure it's nice to experience something with someone else. But it's also fun to experience the same thing alone.
Also if you make a mistake and embarrass yourself. You won't have anyone you know around to tease you for it!

Being alone is something that should occasionally be enjoyed by everyone. Instead of being looked at as a bad thing in society.

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I feel like I do love being alone because then I can’t get hurt by others , I can do more things on my own without being judged . While growing up I’d always love being alone and having “me” time so I could always think to myself . I always plug my headphones in and just see where life takes me

I have no problem being alone but I still need to know that someone is caring about me. It's weird, we want to be wanted and appreciated but sometimes we also want to be by ourselves. I think a balance is important for sure.

Having lived 15 years abroad and having had my own apartment I have really learned to be on my own and more importantly appreciate that time alone.

@kaylinart since I am an only child it was never that hard for me to be alone when I was growing UP. In fact I reveled in being an only child because many of my childhood friends had brothers or sisters and they would have to share their stuff with those brothers and sisters, NOT ME ! LOL

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I am very motivated with your writing this, thanks for share your
experience..

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I think technology is reducing our emotional ties a little. I thought it would increase in the beginning, when we want to talk we have the possibility to talk with the phone by voice or video. These facilities have weakened the ties of people. Everyone is looking at the phone at every moment, playing games if you get bored. Do you read as many books as the old one? Do you have face-to-face conversations as long as you used to be? @kaylinart

A very special publication Thank you for sharing this special moment of your life

when i'm alone i read books. It helps me to forget all my depressions and most importantly it provides me a wide range of knowledge

Now a days and future only one thing will important that is 'TIME'. Most of people don't have time to each others and time is going very fast and never will come again. So everyone should spend time to enjoy this beautiful life.'Life can't revert back'

Thank you very much for writing good motivation in steemit.

I do not agree with that. technology is not meant to be alone

those who were alone were always alone
technology has no effect on it

Nice post

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Thank You!

A friend is a life partner, a good friend will be very useful for us.

I really love it this post, thanks for sharing with us. Your advices are very useful

It helps me thinks straight when I stay alone, and also to make better judgement of situations at hand, beautiful post here miss

Humans like animals, this looks funny .. Haha. Well, I agree, sometimes there are also people behaving like animals. @kaylinart

So sweety...

thanks for the post

I have always felt alone and I thought that this would be a bad thing, as I wouldn't be able to communicate with other people, but you are right about certain things, We can enjoy ourselves even if we are alone... i think that its better to be alone and be happy than to be with people and are upset.!!

Your post always boosts up my energy. I feel very great as I have to live my whole life alone as I am a single mom, and my kids become quite young. Some times feel very upset but post like your energies me greatly. Though I made comments sometime but often I go through your post. Thanks, you are smart enough in this very young age, wish you a very happy New Year, please boost up our energy with your great post. I am becoming addicted to your writings.

well done Dear..I am very motivated with your writing this, thanks for share your
experience.
Resteemed.............

The greatest part about being alone is you get to decide what you do with your time 100%. Much better when you travel as well.

The first image to this blog post seems ironic haha. Great points nonetheless!

Nice post keep posting
Happy new year

Perfect. We must begin together, in life everything can be done. @kaylinart

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As an introvert, I know the value of being alone, as an artist, being alone is the time I have my wildest ideas. :)

I agree with you on this , because if you are not happy with yourself, then how you will be truly happy with the other person. we as have human beings ,we are social beings and we have the need to feel loved and that we are part of somebody else life and that they care for us . on the other hand, you need to have that space that will allow to really discover who you are without distractions.

Grandma used to say you are your own best company. Grandma was right. Good read. Thanks for sharing.

Well i am an introvert by nature and i can relate being alone with myself. Actually being alone is something which gives me boost when go to my room after my job. It also gives me pleasure to spend sometime with me and think upon the things i did in the past and what should i do in the future as well.
This thing is reminding me the couplet of great Urdu Poet Baaqi Sadiqui who says ( Translated Version):

~I feel you deeply my love,
When there is no one with me~

So yes, i do agree with your thoughts that being alone is also source of fun.

Being alone is something that should occasionally be enjoyed by everyone. Instead of being looked at as a bad thing in society.

Please! keep sharing such worth reading blogs.

Stay Blessed, Steem On!

Heavy. I used to be very happy in my own space, but I struggle these days. I get FOMO when I sit at home alone now and I feel extra awkward when I'm out and my partner goes to the bathroom. My phone must come out. It's a reflex I'm trying to unlearn.

@kaylinart mam...
The world of love is an easily solved mystery of giving. As the holidays approach, people are too often filled with anxiety instead of love and serenity. This week I was reminded of the words of Dr. Leo Buscaglia, author of LOVE: "What love we've given we will have forever. What love we fail to give is lost for all eternity."

The secrets to lifelong love are really quite simple. Why? Because love is more than a feeling, it is a decision. Lifelong love asks that we maintain positive illusions, be forgiving, re-ignite oxytocin, and laugh often.
Thank u so much sharing ur valuble ideas with us..I'm realy like and appreciate to ur ideas...
Good luck mam..

I sometimes go to a cafe by myself and definitely still enjoy my time eating alone!!

I'm so fortunate that I met a woman who likes being alone as much as I do, and that we've found a place to live that's so isolated and quiet. We sometimes go for weeks without leaving the house (other than runs and walks), and can happily work all day in silence in our separate rooms.

I love your post. I have this discussion with my coworkers daily. I feel if you are alone you can recollect yourself and focus on the very things that make you happy. I do date nights w myself go to a new restaurant; movie, some sort of art class and it sparks conversations with new people.

i always love to be alone. my parents both are govt employee so i was alone since my childhood. now a days when i am alone i was think about my business plane

Man you nailed it!
I just did a 3.5 month trip on my own and it was the best!! It was incredible to be alone so often and to meet so many new people. IF I had a phone in my hand I knew no one would talk to me, as soon as I dropped the phone I would have social interaction with who ever was around.
It was really neat to be alone and reflect on life and my world.

i don't think so

I always love reading your blog. Thanks for the insight

nice post @kaylinart you did well ad love the drawing. i mentioned your name in my first post in steemit. i guess you would not mind. keep it up dear steemian

LOL...I have brother so I am loved.
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Happy New Year

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Happy New Year

Interesting article work and excellent topic and post as always from my best cute art lady! Happy New month and thank you for gracing my end of year post of yesterday!

Nice post bro! Please upvote me!

Sometimes i use to find it difficult staying alone and always want friends around. But the change is coming gradually and steemit is one of the changes i am experiencing, it makes me stay all by myself and think. Thanks to you @kaylinart

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