Millennials are often frowned upon. Many of us live at home and are somewhat childish. Coloring, Playing games. We don't appear as independent as we could be. Many child psychologists are still seeing people from 0-25, instead of the usual 0-18.

Who do we blame for this? The lazy millennials? Or the parents?
It's also known that many parents have spent a good amount of time babying their millennial.
I wasn't even allowed to go to my friend house as a kid. My parents were too scared I'd get kidnapped or hurt. This was reaccurring, I wasn't allowed to cross the street on my own until I was 12. It seemed a bit silly.

This sheltering, While the parents had good intentions. Somewhat caused us to "not' grow up. We are still in the process of learning and growing even though the move-out and be "free" year had already come and gone. I honestly wouldn't have been able to survive if I left at age 18. But is this so bad? Maybe parents can spend more time teaching driving skills, financial skills, and relationship skills while the adult lives at home, So they'll be better prepared when they leave.

Are the choices available to blame?

These days, We don't' have to get some job, Work there, our whole lives. Then get married at a certain age, and start having kids. Our lives aren't as "structured" As a woman, I'm not destined to be a stay at home mother, Heck. I don't even have to have kids at all if I choose. Many millennials don't even want to get married; They see it as a waste. These days we are full of choices, The man and woman can work and provide. You can have kids or travel instead; You can start your own business. The opportunities are endless. College or no college? All of these choices may have slowed our independence Because we have to make choices for ourselves. We have to decide what we want out of this life; It's not some blueprint that we must follow. This is intimidating, Plus we didn't spend our whole lives preparing for this, It's a new thing!

When do we become an "adult." Is it when we are financially stable? Out of our parents? When we hit a certain age? It's a complicated question these days. Maybe "adulthood" is a different answer for everyone. Many people complain that millennials haven't "grown up." But it's a mix of reasons. Blaming the millennial entirely and not the parents or society seems unfair.