Why I Dropped Out Of College, And DON'T Regret It!

in life •  8 years ago 

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With everyone graduating right now, I can't help but remember my experience with college...
I came from a family, where Education wasn't highly regarded.
Both my parents were high school dropouts. My other brother graduated one year late. And my younger sister dropped out by the time she hit late Jr high.

So naturally, being the ambitious middle child, I wanted more for myself.
So I made a commitment to go to college.
I successfully Graduated high school. And I began school at Salt Lake Community College.

Foreign Exchange Students

Many of you know I live in the U.S. I've never even left in the country. But I have one of the coolest memories from my childhood. .. To help make ends meet, We regularly had Foreign Exchange Students from Japan stay at my house. My parents did it Because the exchange student would pay monthly rent. Which my parents used it to feed us three kids, And pay bills.

It became a normal part of my childhood almost always to have a stranger who came from Japan living at my house.

It was so fun!

We learned Japanese, We spent so much time together, And I learned so much about them.
Sometimes we'd have more than one exchange student over. Occasionally they'd bring their kids, so I had a new best friend living at my house!
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Every morning I'd wake up extra early, My Mom would drop our exchange students at the college they went to.
We had students go to

  • Westminister
  • Salt Lake community College
  • The University Of Utah.

I just liked going, Starting at the window at the beautiful college campuses. I did this purely so I could see the cool buildings. I could have slept an extra few hours before I had to wake up to get ready for Elementary school. But I never wanted to. I wanted to see the colleges.

Sometimes they'd even have parties, Where all the exchange students from Japan would be there, And their host families, We'd play games. Eat Sushi, Amoung other Japanese foods. These typically happened right on the college campuses. I would run around the building playing, Thinking of how amazing it would be. One day I would be a college student too.

College Just seemed like the easy way to become successful

Seeing my parents struggle made me want to work harder for myself because I didn't want the same struggle. Growing up, Everyone told me that going to college would be the key to my success. So It was an easy decision.

My College Experience.

I was shocked by the price of college initially. Even though I was going to the cheapest in the State.
But like most college students I assumed I'd be fine. Because once I graduated I would make a billion dollars and student loan debt wouldn't be a problem.

Although I still decided to avoid loans as much as I could.
The first semester was harder than I expected. Biking 7 miles to and from school with a bag full of textbooks.
Not fun.

Low-Quality Classes!

The classes were your typical high school classes. And I was surprised with how much information I understood. It was like high school all over again.
Most of the work was even book work! It seemed weird to me that I was paying the instructors so much money, handing out simple assignments and a lot of reading.

It slowly started to hit me...

You Won't Get A Job!

So many college graduates I knew didn't have a job. I looked up how much I'd make if I got into my career of choice which at the time was Geology. I was disappointed when I added up the amount of average student loan debt I would have, By the time I graduated with a Masters Degree.
It would take years to pay off. And that if I gave up every penny that I was making.

I was stubborn though And ignored the facts. I truly felt that the only pathway to success is through college.
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As one of my college professors stumbled into school... Drunk...
What?
He did this on a regular basis. It was clear he was an alcoholic.

I'm supposed to learn from this guy....?

Then I was required to take a class called "Math For Artists" Or something like that, For my associates.

We did basic Multiplication, Division.
It was stupid easy, And one day, Someone in the class with me asked a question on how to solve the Math problem...
My Professor went to the board and began explaining. One of the students stopped her. And told her she was doing it WRONG. And she came up with the wrong answer.
She and the student began to argue...
That's when we realized. We had a math teacher who couldn't even do the math...
She was fired a couple of weeks later...
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Are they hiring Monkeys?
Again and again, These people who were ultimately going to help me get to the career of my dreams, Were total garbage.

I started to look around the college, and I started noticing something else...

"Everyone thinks the same".

We were never encouraged to be creative in our classes, Or Learn something beyond what was on Google. It seemed pointless and silly. Why go to class when I can learn through Google. Or heck, Just buy the textbook and read it on my own!?

Everything Is about taking Your money.

I felt robbed when I went to school.
They had all these ridiculous random fees all over the place. An extra 10.00 here and there. I felt like I always needed my wallet for something. I already paid tuition and books, Now all the sudden I need to pay for my ID card, A locker, and some random science fee?
It never seemed like their goal was to give me "A quality education" but instead to milk me for every dollar that my janitorial job could give me.
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What ended it all.

Little did I know when I downloaded a Kindle book called "Choose Yourself." That My life would change forever. I was tired from working 2 part time jobs and going to school. But I was determined to become successful no matter what!
I already had my doubts about college, But after reading that. I quit
School.....
A year later. I quit my part-time janitorial job.
A year after that... I quit my last part time job, Becoming fully self-employed.

College was the biggest regret of my life

I had to pay back the loans I took out, While small. They were a massive burden, and I will never get the time or the money I wasted back.
There are so many great opportunities out there. Don't waste your young age on college!

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It is? I'm not too familiar with Neoliberal capitalism to be honest.

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Checking it out now :) This is stuff I haven't heard of hehe.

Yeah, I'm sure Utah is chock full of "neoliberals."

Sounds like pure free market capitalists were running her school.

There are so many ways to learn these days without paying a high price on low quality education. GOOD FOR YOU.

EXACTLY heheh :)

I completely agree, sometimes the best knowledge is not in college...

So true! It isnt.

I wish I would have had the balls to drop out of college. I was too busy being a sheep. We are defined by the system or by how we reject it.

Aww! It's true!
It's hard to drop out. I was really scared. But it's a risk I decided to take anyways.

It's because you are a thug Jedi Master.

Sounds like you went to a pretty terrible college. I went to a community college and then a major university and it was nothing like that.

College may not be the best choice for everyone, but I don't think it's any better to say no one should go to college. I would absolutely not be where I am today if I hadn't gone to school, and yeah the student loans suck... but I also can be pretty sure what my alternative would have been given where some of my childhood friends ended up.

I'm glad that school worked out for you so well! I agree, That some people can really benefit from college. But I think people really need to sit down and decide what is best for them personally.

Those days are gone when we have to depend on universities for quality education.. one just need a will and the quality information is just a click away free of cost.
Thanks for sharing this interesting post.

So true! I love it a ton! Being free to decide how we learn best is the best way to go.

Very interesting and motivational post for all of us specially for students who are facing same stat.Thanks @kaylinart to share your past and present life moments. i Resteemed your post as i like it so much.

Thank you!!

welcome and my pleasure.

:)

I wish I never had to go to college, but wishes are sometimes just wishes. Here people appreciate marks than knowledge. And being one from here, I would just have to go to college even if I don't want. I want to learn everything from the net, and only from the net. And I am also doing so, but what? I have to go to college just for the sake of mark sheet!! and I am bound to it :(

Why!? Do you need a degree?

Yeah, people seek for certificate more than knowledge and experience here in our country.
But I hope that is really going to be changed in the future :)

Interesting... I will read your posting in deep reading mode later. I always concern about non formal education... Anyway nice posting. Nice you ever meet japanese directly... And their live at your home.:)

Thank you!! I hope to visit Japan. So I REALLY can learn the culture!

I have three degrees. And I tell young people to not go to college.

It's very upsetting to people when it do it.

Good for you.

Three degrees!? I had no idea! In what? Im curious now.
I'm glad you encourage people to not go to collage, It doesn't seem to be getting through to a lot of people. sadly.

I have a BA in Communication, a Masters of Divinity (I'm a former minister) and my teaching certificate to allow me to teach elementary school.

I grew up in a education environment. Both my parents went to school to become educators shortly after I was born. I remember sitting in classes with them and listening to their professor's lectures. Well a decade or so later it was my turn. When I got there I noticed the exact same things you did, but I figured it was an issue with the institution. So I dropped out and decided to go through for my BA over a post-secondary certification.

Well that was worse! I couldn't even last one semester before I got in a childish argument with my english professor and my TAs were both younger than me and less understanding of their own courses. I had 1 TA write a big question mark on my mid term test because they couldn't understand my reasoning and logic, I didn't get the mark for the problem solving but I did get the mark for the correct answer.

The older generation believes in colleges and rightly so. They went 30 years ago and the education had actual quality behind it. Now the education is almost entirely comprised of adjuncts and teaching assistants. There is a real clash of minds simply because our generation and their generation are looking at 2 very different systems and yet are calling it the same name.

Wow thats amazing, that you attended 2 schools instead of one, And still saw the same results.

Yeah, Sadly school has little benefit these days. Back 30 years ago, It definitely made a difference.

I graduated high school in 2015 and I felt like I was the only one who didn't go to college. First of all I didn't know what I wanted, plus no way did I have the money to go to one. I felt ashamed, and everyone told me I should just start out at a community college. Luckily I didn't. I have learned so many more things online the passed few years than my whole 18 years in school. Plus I can't even remember most of the things I even learned!
Looking forward to reading more of your blogs! (:

Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm glad you didn't give into the pressure and go to college anyway. You made the right choice. I am on the same boat. It's hard for me to remember the things I learned. I don't use most of it!

If you can make a good living in crypto posting on Steem and being an entrepreneur you will never need a college degree. College degrees are just about prestige, it looks nice. It's not going to attract money though.

So true!!! I agree with all of that.

YES! College is a SCAM! You're exactly right- all the info you can get for free so why pay an excessive amount for a stupid degree no one really cares about. Great article and good for you! Smart lady!

So true!!

My opinion
if it's not STEM it's a hobby
after you learn a real skill,
get a job (or make one) and make some money
then pursue your hobby.

LOl so true!

word to the wise.
do NOT become a trucker
(been there, done that)
it also might be a idea to check into how long it's likely to be, not if but when, the field you are considering will be replaced by robots..

that's a SUPER important consideration now days.
70% of the workforce will at risk to robots in the next couple decades..probably not that long.

Hahah thank you for the good advice! I will not become a trucker. I agree that most fields will be replaced by robots before long.

I agree with this 100000%

You are perfectly right! Thanks for sharing your wonderful thoughts with us...
My call for any of you is: If you want to be happy and successful in life then don't go to School!

Agreed 100% heehe :)

"Although I still decided to avoid loans as much as I could." You are absolutely right! I can't understand the obsession of loans and mortgages i see in the world.

Same here! Even with my student loans of 4,000 I was stressed out EVERYDAY. Knowing that interest would eventually start piling up on it. I couldn't handle it. So I paid it off real fast.
They charged me only 0.01 In interest LOL.

haha! glad they didn't make money on your back

Heheh they didn't! I was so proud.

Even i am a college dropout. Education will never define who the individual is, it is the wisdom what we gained through it.

So true!!!

Same here! Good for you! :)

Thank you :)

The described college quality actually surprised me a lot! Is that the reason why the path toward the top selective universities getting more and more crowded?

Possibly! I just hope they are much better quality.

I am so sorry about your university education. I felt inadequate not having an education and at the age of 38, went to university. I must say one of the best in England! It was a very good experience, but to keep myself, 2 horses and 2 dogs; I had to work 3 part time jobs. This reduced considerably the social life of the university. Oh well, I got my degree and moved on from there.
I filled the need to be educated. I no longer felt inadequate as I had an 'education'. Did I gain by it? I would say yes. The history degree gave me the academic skills to write and research. At the age of 63, I now have the time, (and need the money!), to write and try and make a living doing so.
You know, I think I will write a blog about this. Thank you twice. XX

I'm so glad that you had a high quality experience!
You should write a blog about that.
I think you can also educate yourself outside of school. But for some people it's easier to go to college. Which is understandable.

I certainly did although I should have gone much earlier when I had no 'family' to provide for. The opportunities at Durham University were considerable, and plenty of money for the students to develop their 'life skills'. The teaching was outstanding and I learnt such a lot. I am so sorry your experiences were not so good.
You certainly can educate yourself outside of school, you are a prime example. Most though, have not got your skills. I have looked at your work and it is fantastic. X

nice life story. thx for sharing :) (in Italy the college is not so expensive, but it gives you even less chances to find a good job)

Thank you!! Thats good that Italy isn't as expensive. I feel like jobs aren't here either.

Smartest thing you've ever done. They are indoctrination camps for libtard slaves. You are on the path to righteousness. God Bless! Keep reading and check out my Blog posts & resteems to fully break free of the matrix and take the red pill!

Thank you :)

Great post. This topic is very interesting, as I also dropped out, but got back in:)

im almost drop out . hahahaha

College graduation sometime does not guarantee success. good experience ,, nice to follow you.

Agreed 100%

mee too

yeah that's the thing with capitalism in general

Yes :(

Never went to college, about to retire early at age 37! (in less than 2 years) Well, at least I will have enough coming in to live a normal life without working, might still 'work' on my side hustles that I love!

College is way overpriced for what you get.

Holy cow!! Amazing job! Its so true. college is way overpriced for little benefit.

Wow. Good for you girl :)

Thank you :)

I find the quantity and quality of your blog posts amazing. How did you write so much?

Life teaches us the most valuable lessons

It does <3

At the end what matters is whether you're happy or not. Sounds like you took the right decision for yourself. :)

I definitely Did.

:)

:)

Choose Yourself, by James Altucher?

Colleges make $ every time an employer calls to verify your education. You become a walking money maker for your school. My English teacher was fuckn his students for grades & drank like a fish. Ask for something to be explained? Make an appointment when they're never there during office hours. College is really about making business contacts before graduation. In addition, I can't tell you how many times I said to myself, "I could do that job easily without a college degree. Since when does any cell phone customer service job require a college degree?" It wasn't until I went in for the group interview that I noticed all the pigment challenged individuals: experience, degree aside were summarily dismissed." So a "college degree" just offers some respect at work for an additional $0.05/hr. Worth it? No because the amount of overtime I've been "required" to work to keep my job could have more than easily made up the difference there. So then what? It means maybe you don't have to log in to the second on that time clock, it means you might get an office, maybe they don't harass you so much for a note from your Dr when you called off sick after being sent home the day before. It means management is less likely to lie to your face when they just need to cut people. In other words you'll be treated more like a human instead of a thing. Bottom line, IF an employer can't respect me for the work I perform, I can find a new job on my own. If someone is going to behave like that, I'd rather know up front. Then I can leave when I'm ready.

I LOVED this post so much!

It's 5 am here, and let me tell you: this got me motivated! :)

Like you, joining college was the second biggest regret of my life. First was joining school. :P (partially kidding)

Yet education through textbook is so overrated I tell you!

Great stuff, thanks!

No problem :)