Marriage💍 or Not?

in life •  7 years ago 

Hello Beautiful People 💕

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Every little girl has that dream of how she wants her fairytale wedding to be, how she wants her proposal, and her Cinderella dress 👸.
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Did she know at the time the man she will fall deep in love with? Did she know the ends and out of finding a "Real Man"? Did she know that she may get her heart broke a couple of times😞.

Nobody explained to her what she will have to go through to pick prince charming. Not only pick her prince charming, but be in her right place spiritually, physically and mentally. Did her parents explain to her that she needs to herself together in order to have her standards set and never go below those✍.
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Marriage is a word that is thrown around and not taken for what it is. Some people marry for love, money, security, and status. Which standard are you looking in 2018? If you want a prince charming are willing to do ALL DUTIES OF A WIFE?

Not all duties is sex. If someone told you that sex is the key to marriage they LIED TO YOU! Sex will come and go and when it goes what else do you and the one you love have now? Children should NOT be your next answer, because your children are going to grow up and leave the nest... Then what's next??

Marriage is not something that needs to be played with or taking as a joke. Marriage is a covenant/vow made to God. So that marriage should have the foundation of God and only God. He is the only one that's gonna get you through whatever situation is to come.

So I say all of these to ask you... Are you ready for marriage? Have you wrote the good and bad? Do you TRULY LOVE💑 this person? Are you marrying someone because you are being pressured?

Answer all these questions before saying, "I Do". Don't be another statistic🚫. Prove that LOVE ❤ is real. Marriage 💍 is real.

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Thank you for this post Kendra. I'm one of those statistics unfortunately. I got married young and at the time it definitely felt pressured. I'm hoping if I get another opportunity it will be better the second time around.

I'm glad you came and read my blog!! Thank you for your support!
And yes I do believe EVERYONE deserves a second chance and when we do we won't do wrong again because we learn from our mistakes and appreciate the one that God is sending to us.