How to change your way of thinking through sustained effort

It's important to remember that everyone makes mistakes. These mistakes teach us things and give us chances to grow as people.

Don't let grief and regret take over your life. You have to carefully notice and look at your mistakes if you want to learn from them.

People can think about how they act and see where they can improve.

But what counts is that you learn from your mistakes and don't make the same ones again.

How can I learn the most from my mistakes?
Don't let what you did in the past stop you. No changes can be made to final choices. In the future, try to do everything right.

Keep the trust that you have in each other. Deal with people who lie and be mean.

Try to understand how you hurt someone before you ask them to forgive you. This real understanding will show that you truly feel sorry for your actions and want to be forgiven.

— It's okay to understand or accept things, because sometimes you have to be careful or just accept them.

In reality, it's very important to be kind and not hurt other people. Respecting and helping other people makes you feel better.

Control your feelings, because they can make you lose drive. Don't waste time being sarcastic or hurting other people; let out your anger.

Don't do what you want to do.

To rebuild trust after making a mistake or hurting someone, you need to say sorry in a polite way.

If you don't say sorry, the target might feel embarrassed or weak, and they might not like you anymore. They might forgive you if you say you're sorry.

It's better to ask for forgiveness in person than to send a message. You don't have to say sorry again after the first time. In spite of what most people think, it's better to say sorry and move on.

Don't think too much about being perfect.
People who are afraid of taking risks might not do anything. To grow and be successful, you need to admit when you've failed and learn from it. Being too careful and afraid of messing up can stop people from taking risks.

Do not try to defend your mistakes.
Because it's in our nature to want approval for what we do, when we mess up, we protect ourselves to keep our self-esteem up. But there are times when it's better to own up to your mistake without further talk.

Accept your mistakes and learn from them.
To avoid making the same mistakes, you need to know why you made the first ones.

Rest and sleep should come first if being tired is making you make mistakes. If you're feeling too stressed, learning how to relax can also help.

Avoid making the same mistakes again by learning from them.
Instead of feeling bad about the things you've done wrong, think about what they can teach you.

You can't move forward if you keep making the same mistakes, which are often caused by bad habits.

Be aware and change the way you think to avoid making the same mistakes again.

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