We can't be sure if our lives are our own or if they are shaped by the past.
Do you think things outside of you have shaped your life?
Do you think about things that happened in the past that change your life?
IF I tell you that you are in charge of your own life! IT ALL RESTS ON YOU!
A lot of people will say that it's not their fault if... It's their fault if...
I'm not right?
Blaming your past, your partner, your boss, your family, and your kids is a way for you to avoid taking responsibility.
You are hurting yourself by situations that won't go away.
If you have a victim mindset and blame other people for your problems, you think you have no control over what is happening and can't change it.
But we can all get our lives back!
We can take back control of our lives and be responsible for them, or we can stay victims of our past and complain, blame, and swear.
We choose to live in the past and remember bad things that happened to us. Whether it's with friends, family, coworkers, ex-spouses, or spouses...
I say that these people survive.
Or deciding to act and turn your life into a work of art instead of putting up with it.
History only exists in our minds and stays where we put it.
Still, we always make a choice:
You can wear red or black, wear your hair up or down, and drink tea or coffee.
Even not doing anything is a choice.
Pick either tea or coffee.
Pick either a dress or a skirt.
What about you? Do you like to act or just watch people?
Being honest about how you can make your life better is the hardest part.
I'll show you the easiest way to get people to believe that we are all responsible for our own lives. Because everything rests on you, take responsibility for what you do.
First, we need to understand that everyone can grow and do well in life. This is the goal I set in my blog post Invest in Yourself for a Better "Me."
Before you start these five steps, keep in mind that you have to believe you can take care of your life.
It can be fun to not be responsible!
If you think you can't help making mistakes, your ego might be safe.
If you don't have the life you want, it's not your fault.
Think about being able to run your own life and control your thoughts.
Step 1: Take back your life through your thoughts
Someone once said, "We become what we think most."
Start by picking happiness.
Our subconscious mind accepts whatever we believe and support, so if we live in a downward spiral of despair and are constantly tormented by bad thoughts, it will continue to work badly.
Your subconscious can only work in your good when you stop thinking badly.
Don't think things will change right away.
Your fears may come back even if you make a promise to change your mind, work every day, and make progress.
Not really.
Don't worry about your worries, problems, and bad thoughts; instead, think about how far you've come.