Many wonder this. I've noticed that there's no ideal couple. For what? The definition of ideal is that it is an intellectual construct based on imagination.
Definition: "Who is conceived and represented in the mind without sense perception. Who attains all possible perfection." The dictionary says "reality" is the antithesis of "ideal" which is fascinating! When we imagine an ideal partnership, we typically ignore reality.
When considering the ideal partnership, you must find what works for you while being realistic. Stay attentive and avoid publications and films with false visuals and plots. Stop hunting for a "soul mate" and stop thinking there is only one.
Whether you live together or alone but want to build a happy couple soon, everyone must work hard to attain their goals. An ideal arises from our imagination,
Personally, I prefer “strive for excellence”. Thus, we stop striving for an ideal and instead focus on improving our marriage. Here are some methods to do this utilising the IDEAL COUPLE acrostic.
Good relationship communication starts with listening. Consider that everyone has numerous personalities, so pay attention to which one is speaking when your partner speaks. The mother or the father? Husband or wife? Male or female careerist? The kid or the adult?
When the child speaks, don't act like a spouse; when the adult speaks, don't act like a lover. Let's continue this example. If the woman says, "Come on darling, leave your work aside; I'm in the mood for a romantic evening," it will soften the environment.
If he answers no, she'll be unhappy, sulk, and he may feel bad. If he agrees, she will win, but she will feel bad for disrupting his work and he will blame himself for being deceived. However, when you listen and take a moment to feel who is saying,
Tell your partner if you have trouble communicating. Some areas are typical to struggle with. Every couple goes through this. Tell someone you're afraid. Expect to be startled that the other person fears the same thing.
Know that accusing someone when you have an emotion is not communication. True communication is telling the other person what you are experiencing, not what you want them to experience. Expecting the other to make you happy will never improve your relationship.
Open yourself to new experiences. Avoid routine and habits. Clothing, eating, sex life, new desires, expressing sentiments, and mental understanding through readings, training, changing opinions can all show this novelty. "U" for
Is it smart to maintain useless items? You undoubtedly agree that living with helpful items is ideal. The same with individuals. We choose a spouse because we know, even subconsciously, that we need them and that they will help us evolve.
Thus, you should periodically assess your spouse's value. I am not talking about your perception of the other during intense love, or the first months of a relationship, when you cannot do without one. Otherwise, reliance is strong. When intense love dies, sincere love can emerge and the value of a partnership is acknowledged.
List your spouse's physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual benefits. In my opinion, the spiritual realm is very important and should not be overlooked. Unfortunately, being the most subtle, it's the simplest to overlook. We use our partner as a mirror to know ourselves, love ourselves, and love others.