You've probably felt heartbreak in your life. Because heartbreak is a part of being human, I'm using this strong sentence. Nobody hasn't suffered the sorrow and emotional upheaval of heartbreak. And someone who has never felt the misery of reliving memories after a breakup. I must explain categorically that heartbreak is an emotionally and physically draining experience. Heartbreak can cause a heavy ache in the chest and around the heart.
I'm going to share a heartbreak with you today since having friends and family that had similar experiences helped and eased me. Seeing that others have gone through similar things gives me hope.
In that period of my life, I experienced everything to the fullest, from a love romance to a heartbreaking split. I recently terminated a five-year relationship. It was a painful breakup, but I felt liberated after making the right choice.
I started boxing classes about this time. Marc was there. It caught my eye right away. I loved him because he was so full of life. He made it clear he liked me and tried hard to attract my attention. When I finally paid attention to him, I was captivated. We started talking, but I wasn't ready for a relationship. I was still hurting from the breakup and wanted time to comprehend it all.
Despite my feelings, I started dating Marc soon after. As previously said, Marc was a true believer in his achievements. After only three weeks of dating, he introduced me to his family and friends. He even suggested we go to Thailand together in the fall.
Because I liked him, I let go of my anxieties and worries and went with the flow. An intense month of romance turned Marc cold and even hostile against me. I noticed a change in their demeanour and asked what had happened. He left me suddenly. He didn't even explain. He'd grown bored. I'm not sure what else to term it if not an emotional tempest.
But I wasn't ready for this. First, the intense emotions I felt throughout my first breakup made me feel weak. A second sudden parting was also heartbreaking. I cried. I was crippled by the accumulated emotions of two breakups in a row. My heart was shattered, and I couldn't think clearly.
Do you know how it feels to be unexpectedly separated from something you loved? I wasn't sure I wanted another relationship. To be in a relationship is wonderful, and Marc had taught me that. She then decided she didn't want me. Looking back, I can see Marc did not act like way. At the moment, it looked Marc had purposefully broken my heart. I'm not sure what was going through his mind, but my heart was broken. Then I realised how odd the situation was: I'd previously been in two long-term partnerships. But this breakup was harder than the other two. Why was this done?
In order to absorb the things I needed to learn, I had to place distance between my experiences and view my environment more clearly. The following are the most important lessons I've learned:
Always pay attention to your feelings. If you're not ready for a new relationship, don't rush into it, no matter how intriguing the individual is. You won't miss out on meeting your soulmate because you can't give what you don't have.
You'll know you met the proper person when you're no longer hurting or doubting if you really want to be in a relationship with the other person. "If you meet someone and your heart racing, hands shaking, and knees loosening, they are not the love of your life," an old Buddhist adage goes. Relax when you meet your soul mate. Your nerves will go."