ROLES IN THE FAMILY
Today I feel with desire of talking about member’s roles in a family.
First we should know that family is the base of society, so it’s too important for us like adults to raise good children for it not to become a problem to the society.
It’s well known that now a days the conception of a family is too distorted. The most common is seeing children passing over their parents without paying attention to them. Also, with the new era of technology the kids are getting lonelier than they ever was. They never eat with others family members, in family meetings they are always stuck in their phones, they never want to go out because they prefer to be in their iPads, or phones, or even watching a movie, but alone.
And sadly, parents don’t pay too much attention to this, because they are convincing that that is normal, but it isn’t.
I’m going to tell you a short fact with “normal”. Maybe what is normal is not good. So, you don’t have to do what everybody does thinking that that is the right thing, because it probably isn’t.
Continuing with the topic, I’m going to proceed to explain in detail the roles of family members.
Let’s start with the FATHER
Years ago it was thought that the father just brings the economical help to the home, and he didn’t pay too much attention to his kids. However, currently, that is not like that anymore. Today both parent share quality time with all their children.
But out of that, the father plays a too much significant role in the family. The father is who gives the identity to his kids, then, is normal to see in families whose father is gone, that children are a little beat lost, and they don’t know who they are.
In the case of the boy child, the father is who give him the example of masculinity.
The MOTHER
With mothers happen a similar thing like with fathers. Years ago it was thought that mothers only take care of her children. But now, women also help in the economical part to the house. Which in my opinion it is quite nice, because these makes the father share time with his kids also, not just the mom.
But normally, the mother is who brings all the love and affection to the family, specifically to her children. Without her the children will feel unloved and rejected.
And finally, the KIDS
The children are just in the family to grow, learn, develop their values and principles, and generally, they are teach of how they should behave out there in the world.
And that’s it steemians,
Hope this post makes you reflect on this and change bad habits
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