HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AT ONLINE DATING (Ending has the secret) :)

in life •  8 years ago  (edited)

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This is a complete guide taken from real instances and experiences.

  1. In order to get the attention of whoever it is.. Get it, and get out.
    Send an intriguing and unique first message, never say, "hey." Life ain't fair, only girls can get away with that.
    And only text back once and a while.. If you get into a convo don't be a bastard.. text back.. unless they don't. But you don't have to have long conversations, get in and get out. Keep planting seeds.

  2. DON'T cross the line.. To an extent play it safe over text.. In person the line is more mutable. Unless you REALLY cross the line, they aren't about to just walk away from you. You've gotten that far, so get there.

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  1. Don't be pushy. BE PATIENT. As someone who hates texting, I know how hard this is, but give him or her time. You can plan some stuff, if it doesn't work out, .DON'T FRET. KEEP YO KOOL. If you don't you look kind of like a psycho. Just say no worries and move on.. if he or she meant it, they'll text you in the future.

  2. Be yourself. It's never going to work out if you put up a facade. We all can't be Denzel Washington, don't try to be.

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  1. Be cautious. Those pictures are there for a reason. They say the camera adds ten pounds? NO. The camera subtracts 50. 9/10 times whoever you're talking to is that much heavier in person, and hey that could be a good thing or a bad thing, but at least prepare for the worst that's all I'm saying. In the event you aren't attracted to them, DON'T lead them on... I'm not saying ruin the vibe if you're having a good time, but let them know as soon as possible, so you guys don't waste each other's time. And BE GENTLE ABOUT IT. Don't hurt people's feelings , and don't not text back, that's cowardly.

P.S. MY personal secret, and a great ice breaker... Play mad libs over the phone. It's harmless, funny, leaves room for lots of conversation, and can sometimes get a little bit steemy.. you never know!

See what I did there!?

And when you do go out, don't worry about money, don't be cheap, don't be too generous.. If you have no other choice than do dinner so be it, but find somewhere cool and fun you will both enjoy that's more low key, less pressure, stand out from the crowd!!!

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Let me know if you have any questions or comments. Good luck out there!!! Find you some love.

The apps I recommend:

Tinder
Bumble
OkCupid
POF

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I agree with a lot of this, but in my experience you want to actually plan something very quickly. It's hard to keep engaged just looking at texts from someone - planning a drink in a couple of days keeps things interesting a ready to go.

100% Agree my friend, I mean I could go on for days.. For people who are having trouble though where that stuff doesn't work as planned.. this would hopefully be the solution. Thank you so much for the input!!! :)

Great tips! I fully agree with them, I would never reply to a "hey" from a guy. I like more than that.

hey

I'm jk, thank you so much!!! I mean it's a pretty terrible opener, it's like checking their pulse, like uh hey, you alive on that side?? haha