Cheating does not make you more of a man| An opinion

I am writing this post because someone close to me has cheated. And i am posting this with a disclaimer that i am only writing base on my opinion and my opinion only. Read at your own risk.

I may not be the one who was cheated on, but i witnessed how devastating it is to be cheated. And i am in no favor for cheaters. I've known a girl who was cheated on, I felt so much pain while she was elaborately explaining to me what happened. She was asking sooo much question, she was starting to degrade herself saying "Am i not enough?" "What did i do?" "What else is missing?" "Did i lack love and care?" And that was very dangerous because she was on the verge of giving up.

To most men, they'll think having 5 girls at the same time is manly. My friend, having a lot of girls does not measure your masculinity. What measures up is how much you can love one woman. And there goes some excuses "I'm only human, i make mistakes." Oh please, stop the drama. Cheating is a choice, it may be human nature to appreciate beauty but it is not human nature to hurt someone only to feed your fantasies. Which reminds me of a quote that i'm reminded of.

If you love two woman at the same time, choose the second one.
Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second. -Johnny Depp

This is spot on! The quote hits the bullseye! Love is not a game that you can play with, it is a commitment where you are willing to risk everything including your comfort zone, you need to change if you have to change for the welfare of love. And people's feelings are not toys where you can just toss it around.

Cheating does not make you more of a man! This is not just for our gentlemen out there, this also goes out for all the women. Let us not play with love. Hence, be mature enough to face commitment head on.

Truly yours,
Arvill