WHAT IS DONE IS DONE.....

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What is done is done....
People make mistakes. Sometimes very serious ones. As often as not, the mistakes aren't deliberate or personal. Sometimes people just don't know what they are doing. This means that if,in the past,people have behaved badly towards you,it wasn't necessarily because they meant to be horrid, but because they were as human as the rest of us. They made mistakes in the way they brought you up or finished a relationship with you or whatever, not because they wanted to do it that way, but because they didn't know any different.

If you want to, you can let go of any feelings of resentment, of regret, of anger. You can accept that you are fabulous human being because of all bad things that have happened to you need to just get on with things.

Don't use the labels 'bad'. Yes, I know some of it is indeed bad,but it is how we let it affect us that is the real 'bad'. You could let all these things get you down, fizzle away internally like some emotional acid making you ill and resentful and stuck. But you will let them go, embrace them as character forming and in general as positive rather than negative.

You might have rough,tough and bad upbringing that might make you resentful. It is so easy to blame your bizarre upbringing for all that was weak or dispirited or badly formed in you. It is so easy to do. But once you accept that WHAT WAS DONE WAS DONE, and that you could choose to forgive and get on with your precious life, things will improved enormously.

"There is no going back, only forwards". Make this your moto for life - keep moving forward.
What is done is done and you need to just get on with things.......

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