When The Person You Love Doesn't Love You? 5 ways of self-fulfilling

in life •  8 years ago 

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The world is crumbling, when the man once was so anxious to go with you by the hand, at a point, rejects your love. He is not interested in your feelings, his heart beating in a calm rhythm when you're around or absent. All that tied you up with him – have come undone like a rope on the balloon of deflated illusions. 

Emptiness fills your lungs and it gets so hard that it's impossible to move, even if you want to run away from yourself. All your thoughts grind the heart in pure beef never-ending pain, and what hurts? Is it a lachrymose ego or defrauded soul, who cares?

Life goes on, creativity continue... the Action over time is the best medicine. What if he doesn't love you? 


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Morgue is for the dead, for those who still have a glimmer of what was left – 5 ways of self-fulfilling:

1. Clarified. 

There is nothing worse than uncertainty and guesswork. Draw your beloved out. If you are fall to discuss your, write him a letter about what you think and what you wanted to say. How he is going to take it? Most likely, he has already decided and his attitude will not change, but it is possible to bare your and free up the brain.

2. Give yourself time for tears. 

Define a specific period of time you need to cry and self-pity. Prepare handkerchiefs, steal away and cry. Get over this little tragedy and explore the lavish funeral of this love. Remember all the best moments that was between you and him, and let him go to all four corners of the earth. 

3. Get yourself active. 

Just as a general rule do something useful for yourself, your career, health and beauty every day. This fellow was found to be a big idiot had not appreciate your merits. It is a plight to be rejected, you don't have a permission to give up on yourself. Wake up, prove to yourself that you are super person, and deserve better! 

4. Communicate and flirt. 

Nothing restores better than a live communication with interesting people and men in particular. Do not rush to jump into a new relationship, but don't give up on simple dates. Just think, how many men live in your town, I assure you, there are so many good boys that fit your parameters. 

5. Love yourself and broadcast love. 

Remember that you have a piece of the divine, and lot of stuff that is worth loving. "I love you" repeat these words to yourself every morning in front of the mirror throughout the day and before bedtime. Accumulate this feeling and broadcast it around. You will see how your life restores, you will meet new people, new situations and along with them your own real man comes to you. 

Wounds heals, the sun rises as earlier, after winter is always coming spring –nothing lasts forever... 

Love is not lives in one person, it is present in everything and always wins.


I really wish you all the happiness!

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