Life goes on

Life is a series of ups and downs ... Happy moments alternate with difficult ones ... No one feels the pressure of loneliness and the bitter taste of despair when life smiles and when friends are near ... But difficult moments are those that reveal the true Character of man and highlights the power to overcome the hardships and to leave behind the past ... Yes, it is about those difficult moments when we have to face the changes or even generate ourselves these changes when we have to take Important decisions, or when we are faced with decisions taken by others, unbiased and that affect us directly and personally ...
Each of us reacts differently to such changes ...
Some accept the change very easily, head up and move on ...
Others have the problem of time ... They live running after time but can not catch it even if they run faster ... For others, time is delayed and they look greedily towards the future, forgetting to live the present moment, which in reality Is the real time ... For all time is equal, no more than 24 hours a day ... The difference is what we do each time ... We have to take advantage of every moment, because LIFE IS THAT PASS, while we are making plans for the future ...

There are people who do nothing else but to solve problems: solve my problems, solve your problems, solve the problems of other people ... But forget about your own soul ... Forget it has to live and love ... But there are moments In life when he must love himself ... Take care of his own soul ... Stop being sensitive to others, stop listening to what others say, just do what he feels and what he wants. And if this guy is asked tomorrow by someone "why do not you care?" It's time to answer "because he cared too much for me before." If asked "Why do not you cry?" It's time to answer "because I cried too much until now!" And if he asked, "Why do you sit alone in a corner?" It's time to answer "because the time has come for my soul too!"
Some of us find it hard to accept the new reality and the current state of affairs, and they struggle hard to keep up with the past teeth.
We have to remember that we can not exist at this moment just by the longing of the past ... Not even asking ourselves "why?" ... What happened, has happened and if you want to release yourself, you have to leave the past. .. The facts have passed and must be left behind ... It is sometimes so important to destroy memories, make a present, change our house, break old papers, sell or give our favorite book. The past is past ... Stubbornly repeating the phrase "my personal past" will harm the soul and the mind, it will take you away and will endure you ... Life is always ahead, never back ... If you go through life just leaving "Open doors", in any event, you will never be able to detach yourself from the past, and you will not live with thanksgiving ... Do not you have the love or friends to take away from your heart? Possibilities to return? Why? Need for explanations? Unspoken talk? It's time to decide ... If you can cope, now is the time ... If not, let them go, close the chapters ... Tell yourself that you do not want them back ... But that's not Pride or pride, but just because you do not want to be part of that place, that heart, that room of the house, that office, that job ...

You're no longer the guy two days ago, three months ago or a year ago ... That's why there's no reason to go back ... Close the door, turn the page, complete the cycle ... You will not Be the same, and neither the place you want to return will be the same, because nothing remains static in this life ...
For your mental and spiritual health, detach yourself from all these things that are no longer found in your life ... Realizes that nobody and nothing is indispensable ... Nobody is vital for you to live ... You come In this world alone, so read yourself to live with yourself without that human or physical closeness that makes it so hard for you to break up today ...
Never when we are in difficult times, at the crossroads, we do not remember the unwritten law of vacuum that operates and which says that in order to make good things in our lives, we must get rid of the old ones ... Many people do not Knows this immutable law of the universe, and when this "cleansing" of life happens, they fall into the abyss of despair and depression, continuing to live in the past and feeling that life will never be as beautiful ... From Happiness, life can be much better ...
To open a new door, sometimes we need to close other doors and the opportunities will appear. All you have to do is give up what it was, accept what has ended, trust that something good is waiting for you, and that only now it can manifest itself in your life ... This is true in everything The field of our lives, be it career, family or love.
Have you just finished a relationship? Remember your good things, analyze what went wrong so as not to make the same mistakes in the future to improve and move on with your head up ... Call your friends and come out together ... Now you have everything Time and space to find what you want, backed by more experience and wisdom ... Just remember: never forget someone important in your life, you just learn to live without him or her ...
You always have to know when it's time to end a life stage and have the courage to say STOP. If you insist to stay at this stage beyond a reasonable time you will lose the joy and meaning of what is beyond ... Close cycles or doors or chapters. It is important to close them and leave behind moments of your life, moments that have ended ...
We have to learn the lesson and move on because no one who learns the lesson of the past is condemned to repeat it ...