People who stayed next to you when your life was beautiful, because they could borrow little of her glow. The same people who move their eyes and pretend they do not see you when you sink, instead of coming to help and grabbing your hand, how could you do for them once. People who forget. People who took your kindness as weakness. People who do not realize in their ignorance and pride, that someday they may need you again. People returning quietly, indifferently, or seemingly preoccupied with theirs ... These, unfortunately, are people who do not fit in "the friend of necessity is known."
But you also meet people, who, on the contrary, stand beside you when you are hard. I'm staying, but I'm not. I am not to support you, but I stand to feel compassionate and to see how your existence can sometimes be miserable. Because otherwise, how would their life look a little more spectacular? They will also try to discourage you and pull you back when you give signs that you want to get up. Envy will transform them, become ironic, will not support you, will not appreciate you, and will not show you admiration when you succeed. These are the people you say about "Keep me, my God, of friends ... that I also keep my enemies out of my sight."
Perhaps life chose you and sent you into the same marriage, but you choose if you want to accompany them to the end or not. And sometimes, it's better to leave some of them, back ...
When you think it's harder for you to be, or you can not be, when tears you will not have to cry anymore, when you put your face in your hands, that person appears, as if from nowhere, less surprised than you But it will give you strength and courage. Maybe he will not know how to give advice, but it will be a shoulder to support you, a man who will patiently listen to you, a friend who will understand you and find solutions. It does not impose, does not demand, does not judge, it just exists. It is there and gives you unconditional attention and support. He laughs with you, he's sad with you. It impulses you, applauds you, and praises your achievements. It will help you get up and head up when needed. Sometimes a safe friend finds him in unsafe situations. Take it and put it in your soul. Honor him, respect him, and give him your loyalty in turn.
Do not wonder if it will not always be present in your life! Sometimes it will accompany you only until sadness is no longer sad or until cold smiles turn into laughing laughter. You will learn with time that real friendships are not based on long and frequent conversations. And some connections are so strong that they transcend the common sense. True friendships are kept with good thoughts in beautiful souls ...
Thanks for the great post @marius19
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I liked what you said. The colorful picture, too. Thank you for putting into words, some thoughtful insights.
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Huh true reflections of life and friendships.
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Lovely thoughts for a Monday morning
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