why negative words instead of positive ones - An In Depth Anaylsis on What Works and What Doesn't

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You apperceive those moments if anyone affronted you

Or did something appear to you and you bandy a dank anathema into the air?

"son of a b***ch" !!

At the University of Harvard, 5 hundred acceptance was taken to appraise the next thing.

Ask them to anathema as abundant as they wish in three weeks and to analyze whether the blame absolutely calm them down?

The after-effects are surprising!

The aboriginal affair they apparent was that girls were cursing beneath than boys! Conceivably because of ethical codes of bashfulness abiding in altruism today, conceivably because of the woman's body added sensitive? But on the added hand, if the apperception is added sensitive, I would apprehend the adverse to happen, for the woman to anathema added because she is aching added quickly.

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The advisers noticed that women anathema less, but the blame they blame assure them more, and actuality are the reasons

The after-effects appearance that men anathema about 1.3 times added than women.

Another aftereffect is that if you use one anathema too abounding times it will lose the alleviation effect.

If you use a array of blame you will apparently be able to relax added calmly ..

Sounds too good? lets curse! Well, things are not absolutely the same. The after-effects of the abstraction acutely announce that if cursing a lot, a bearings is created that boring the blame (no amount which armory of blame you have) become beneath and beneath soothing.

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One of the analysis authors, Dr. Oren Weirn, says:

"Unambiguously we arrested whether a anathema can calm a being who entered ache and the acknowledgment is yes and no, yes abbreviate appellation not continued term"

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Dr. Oren Weirn adds:

"At first, our archaic academician recognizes a anathema as a again advance on the being who aching us or what hit us, but our academician boring realizes that the botheration is not apparent by blame and accordingly the blame stop abating the affliction of a being who has entered an assumption advance or pressure"

When should I use blame if at all?

"It's best not to use blame because they do not break the problem, but if it's harder for you to get out of accent after curses, it can sometimes be a acting abatement like Advil to a headache.

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