10 reasons why people feel lost in life

in life •  6 years ago 

Have you ever asked yourself why you feel so painful? Often your soul is lost in the mazes of life and you do not feel that your heart relaxes everything you do and you feel that you often chose the wrong way if you originally chose this article will contain as much detail as you need.

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1-Loss of contact with soul and heart:

One of the basic reasons why a person feels lost in life is that he does not become in good contact with his heart and spirit because he pays much attention to what the mind does of logical things and what everyone around him says when he can not hear his inner voice and can not hear the voice of wisdom from his soul.

2- Life lives on the beliefs of others:

There are some people who believe in the beliefs of those around them that are too important to live a life that is not their life. They take the views of those around them and apply them to their lives only because they believe in the views of those around them, such as family, friends, teachers or society. Religious)

You should not believe in anything that you may take from the minds of people easily and do not listen to what they say and do not imitate what they do before they cross the barrier of thought, restrictions and filters that you put in your mind. You should analyze, think and put your mark on everything you do to.

3- Give value to the opinions of others higher than your own opinion:

Even if you have many people with reliable opinions and wisdom that do not disappoint you should not let their opinions outweigh your importance.

I do not say do not take the opinions or advice of others, but do not implement without thinking or analysis just think about everything that is said to you or interest you simply because they may not be in the same position or do not see the same scene that you see. You may take their views and adjust some things to fit with what you think .. Simple !!

4- Fear governs everything in your life:

For those who feel lost in life and disappointment this is one of the most important reasons that may make you feel this is fear. The hearts of these people are closed, surrounded by fear from all sides, and the ruler who controls their lives at home, at work, and with their friends, and at any time needs to make a decision that simply makes your life restrained and unhappy.

Although one of the most important engines in the life of human beings are love and fear, but this fear is satisfactory and inappropriate to coexist because if you want to feel better you must get rid of your fear and there is an article about this in self-educate and do something to fear him every day.

5- Distorted internal voice:

Sometimes your inner voice is the cause of distorting your life and everything you do not want. The problem is that human involvement in the living too much may distort his inner sense so that he sometimes deceives him and does not have the light that should follow him and does not reflect the truth then must return to the assets and the main objectives so it is preferable to write every day, Or anything that may remind you of what you should do from the start. You do a computer restore in some cases.

6- Surround yourself with people who make the situation worse:

Spend a lot of time with the wrong people one of the reasons for your sense of loss. When people yell at you, they pull you down. They are the ones who complain constantly. They blame and feel that they are victims. They broadcast a lot of negativity, doubts and fears.

Always try to surround yourself with positive people who are full of vitality, vigor and passion. You must surround yourself with those who inspire you in the spirit of creativity and challenge and help you in a positive and effective way to overcome all the obstacles that face you, whether psychic or realistic.

7- Believe every bad idea that comes to mind:

The brain is a great tool, but if it is used well and if you use it wrongly, it may turn life into hell because the mind works with a very simple logic: "Mind sees what you want to see" and enough. It puts in front of you only what you want to see whether bad or good This does not mean in the end is the implementation of your decision you alone and whatever you are the owners of positive ideas may occur and are exposed to some negative thoughts such as fear of failure or loss and this in itself can destroy your world so it must not Listen to the negative thoughts that the devil sends to you.

8- Thinking that logical things are more important than horses:

Imagination is often better than reality and may give you a lot of positive solutions to your problems, but sometimes it is about reasons and logic so that you forget the imagination and what you can do and ask yourself a lot of questions about the reasons and the logic of things happening. But in fact we seek in this world to look for ourselves. And we do not have the result or even may not see the end of the road clearly just do what you have to do and leave all the reasons and results on God is all of us.

9- Attachment to the past:

The past may be so beautiful that we forget the present, but it is not often true. All you have to do to make a change in the future or even to become happy in the future is to take care of the present and make it better. In the past something happened and we can not change it anyway. Is present you should remember it well.

10- Try to control everything and reach perfection:

We must agree that perfection and perfection are for God alone and not for us to be perfect. God has created us as sinners. We must repent of our actions. But the problem begins when we believe that we can control everything and each person creates a lot of disruptions in life anyway.

  • You must resort to God a lot and learn that we will not achieve perfection in any way just analyze your actions and learn from your mistakes and try not to repeat them and imagine yourself the interest of everyone, we all carry enough of the world.
  • When you feel disappointed and lost you have to resort to God at the beginning then begin to calculate yourself and read the article and analyze your actions to get rid of your life and make you out of control.
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  ·  6 years ago (edited)

The past may be so beautiful that we forget the present, but it is not often true. All you have to do to make a change in the future or even to become happy in the future is to take care of the present and make it better. In the past something happened and we can not change it anyway. Is present you should remember it well.

Of course my past was so beautiful, my present life with lot of tears and my future is so unsure!!!
I am a mom with a special need son ...

The past is a lesson, the present is the chance and the future is the outcome.

I wish you a lot of strength! I know that's hard.

  ·  6 years ago (edited)

God will always be your strength! Our future will always be better and a kind of consolation for our past, we just need to be positive about it in all rounds!

If person full their mind with negativity and replace positive thoughts with
the negative ones then he would become uncomfortable for their whole life.

I think a very simple and effective way to start seeing more positive things in life is to have a journal and every day before going to sleep to think about 3 (or more) good things which have happened that day and write them down! It seems like a super easy thing (but who said only difficult things work? Maybe this is the issue we normally face.. We tend to over-complicate life...) to do but it really works.. I think sometimes we don't appreciate all the good things we have/experience since life is quite hectic.. but we have to take these few moments every day and try to reflect.. it can be anything... maybe someone smiled when gave you a cup of coffee, maybe you saw a rainbow or maybe your favorite song was playing when you entered a shop. We just have to learn to capture these magical moments and we will see that every day there is smth to smile about! :) I don't know you but I am sending you some smiles virtually! :)

There are many good points here. I particularly agree with the part "Attachment to the Past". Whether it's a good or bad past, being too attached to a previous situation either makes me dread it or miss it that I feel bad. We can't be too attached to the future either to the point that we worry about what may happen tomorrow. Living everyday as if it were your last is the best advice I've heard, though its far from literally thinking it's your last day. I mean panic may ensue if you knew it's true you'd die tomorrow! Haha. -That only means you need to keep worry and obsession to a minimum and do the best you can today in order to live your life to the fullest in he long run.

Spend a lot of time with the wrong people one of the reasons for your sense of loss

Yes, you are right about this. I've been in a wrong friend before and i regretted it. But at least I learned my lesson. :)

i know that feeling too...

It makes a world of difference who you choose to hang around in your life! Glad you learned your lesson!

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Thank you.

I like your work .. well done
Yes only perfect for God .. Must be patient
thank you for the advices

Don't live in the shadow of others but just collect their advices and suggestions and decide for yourselves what you think is right and just. Learn from experience but don't live with it, move on and set your goal in life.

You need purpose and confidence - that's all you need to stay happy and motivated

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Often, people feel lost in life, when loose beloved person(((

To be lost and then found, life’s lessons are profound. :)

Ouch! The number 9 hits me so hard! haha =D

true you sum it up. i agree.

Very nice stolen article from purposefairy.com. Keep it up!

4- Fear governs everything in your life

I once read that the greatest suffering of man is the fear of suffering. 80% of the things you worry about will never happen. Do not let these thoughts control your life. Great article!

As you have pointed out @michaelmorcos Anyone whose life is based on what other thinks, feels, or says, is doomed to fail from start.

We all have our inner guidance system which should be trained and utilized for our personal profiting. It is what make us real humans.

It is only robots that takes orders and direction from everyone and everything.

In the end, the first person you need to make happy is yourself. If you aren't happy yourself, it becomes hard to make other people happy, and this can be quite a vicious cycle. People are way too fearful of what other people think of them, and way too attached to material objects. Material wealth doesn't matter, and it can never make you truly happy.
In the end, you should "simply" work on being the best possible version of yourself, as that is all you can do. If we are all a better version of ourselves tomorrow, than we are today, the world is bound to grow better.
of course, what is "good" is subjective....

This is so true. We waste our energy focusing on what others think and how they are judging us when we are really just judging ourselves. Once we learn to let go and look within ourselves it makes everything so much easier. And you are so right about material things. People use material things to fill the emptiness inside themselves instead of discovering who they truly are. We cannot take these items with us when we leave. They are simply here for the experience.

Nice post (:

i think this post is written for me , i am completely lost .Every day is passing in my life as it is just another day and i am still breathing.
my heart is closed,surrounded by fear
i have lost the taste of life,
this post will be a big motivation for me!

I feel lost when I don't take the time to find out what I really want and why. When I am in touch with my own desires and not what it's expected of me, I am motivated to do what it takes to win.

This post is very great and helpful , thanks your information .

you are very right! ;)

Wow am amazed by the resolutions,,thanks allot.
By the way we can never have a straight path in life,,ofcos challenges will come in and also those lonely moments when you feel so down but the only solution is that you can make it.

So true, @michaelmorcos! Thanks for sharing that. It's a timely reflection for me feeling lost in the maze of steemit on my 4th active day here too... All the best to you and everyone out there.

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This is bang on! I totally agree with these reason as to why people feel lost in life. I personally, had to learn each and everyone of these things the hard way. But I am so grateful for the lessons.

Between our ego, society our past and the lack of awareness of the essence of who we really are, is a sure recipe for an unfulfilled life.

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nice post, I also feel in my life so lost, but all the time heals

You wrote this understanding that someone would need these words. There is no true way to express my gratitude. I needed to hear so much of this, if not all...

I thrive in positively and try to do the same for others. But I have noticed that even one negative influence can halt all progress if it is a constant factor.

I have lost my sounding board, my logical mind that provides good advice. It has been a task to manuever with out such a pivotal influence

Advice and encouragement such as this, aids a great deal. Thank you so much for changing my attitude this day. I did indeed fall into the dark places of my mind. Thanks for the hand in pulling me out.

Be blessed this day and every one moving forward.

Once I changed my environment, my mindset changed too. Sometimes there were bad day where it felt like I was suffering from withdrawal, and craving my old lifestyle. But learning to love yourself and being your own best friend takes time. It's not a learning curve, but a jagged path.

Lamentan dolo mucho la vida es así, en la vida perdemos personas amadas sin poderlas recuperar.

Great article! You mentioned important things that will may open our eyes after reading this. Many people feel lost in life and people will only be able to change it, if they know WHY they feel lost.

I read ones: "if you can not find God... guess which one is the lost"

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aahhhh.... it does happens ... when you are going away from a beloved 1 and you know that you can be with her,, (again)

I feel like my life has been a series of miracles. I was in every sense a lost cause. I like your thinking why people feel lost in life @michaelmorcos

you need balance

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Great post! Yes, a lot of us has encountered dissapointments, failures, sober, lack of confidence in our life. Though moving on, takes a lot of courage and determination. Since the only person that makes us strong and have this inner feeling of joy starts within us. Sometimes, our reactions to events or incidents is the source of our emotions as well. If you react in a proactive way, then you just accept why it happens that way! So, therefore, less stress! Thanks for sharing!

Yes dude you right I understand your post all good things and I also always feel alone sometimes I try to live happy let's see

Often people why people feel lost and lonely is that they tend to overthink the situation and make it seems like it is bad than it actually is.

I feel your points on another level especially with living with people's beliefs.

People have no idea how the beleifs they force on their kids or other people can make them very disturbed

Okay so I must tell, I have been Going through all these points in my life and I don't know where I am. Lost. Missing. I don't know what should I do...

When i feel that i lost in life I only pray to GOD and ask him for guidance and not to leave me alone in my critical situation and ask him to give me enough strenght to carry some heavy vurdens in my life and i know love of GOD IS ETERNAL

Just stay positive and keep moving forward... look back sometimes and learn from it. Never ever live in the past. Those tiny details is my guide not wandered.

Thank you so much for this. I was just talking with a friend of mine tonight about how lost I've felt ever since high school(going on 32 soon). Some days it weights on my pretty heavy. Told her I felt like I was lost in some thick jungle for over 10 years. Seeing this post helped me a lot. Thank you thank you.

You're right we lost our life because of bad company

super!

I think this post is written for me. Totaly love it!

good content. what you are talking about is real ... thanks for your input .. i really liked your post.

I, too, have experienced negativity in people and dislike it very much. I had enough of the negative people surrounding my life in past. I also have this attachment to the past I need to get rid of.

Ferfect nature brother, i like ur post

I think people fell lost in life when they wanted to give up pains and sufferings of life and started to live in imagination,so because of this they appear to be an escapist(far from realism)

Well said @michaelmorcos

If we could only learn to love what we have and be content we will be happy. The problem with us (that includes me) is we always want more, or we felt that we need more. We should be thankful for what we have and have god in our life and he will always provide

You should always listen to your inner voice & I'm sure good things will happen. I'm sure that the ones you're surround by change your way of thinking and how you see life, but that doesn't have to be in a negative way! We're here to learn from each other and our own mistakes! It's important to find yourself and to follow your heart! :)

nice post

good article

Great post man thanks for sharing, you can help the people

Hola.
Si bien es cierto que esas 10 razones pueden hacer que la persona se perdida en la vida, vamos a buscar a trabajar en cuales le dan sentido a la vida de una persona.

  1. Darle gracias a la vida por estar aquí y ahora.
  2. Existen personas que se preocupan por nosotros y nos aman.
  3. Estamos aquí y tenemos una misión que cumplir. A lo mejor no sabemos cual es pero la tenemos y debe ser cumplida.
  4. Tenemos algo porque luchar y es por nuestra familia y por nosotros mismos.
  5. Somos capaces de lograr lo que nos proponemos y ser exitosos en nuestras vidas.
  6. Nuestra vida si tiene sentido
  7. Dios nos dio la vida y eso debe ser agradecido ante él.
    Saludos

Buen input mi hermano, yo le añadiría que esta vida no es nuestra y tratar de controlarla es demasiado para el poco tiempo que tenemos... al entender esto solo debemos agradecer y disfrutar cada aliento...

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Only god know how glad I am find this post. I used to keep negative thing in mind and blame my self every time i got fail. There so many fears inside of me that make me step back when I have dare chasing my dream. So many. Thanks for your alignments. I will keep in mind and always remember what do you say in here. Thanks for the motivation @michaelmorcos

right people usually do not want to analyze. Maybe they do not do this from their fears, but they do it with their free will. Free will also catch up with authenticity.

So that you do not feel lost, the most important thing is that you know yourself from your being, to be clear about values ​​and to live life in function of personal well-being, to accept setbacks and get up with a great effort to move forward.
Regards, michaelmorcos

  ·  6 years ago Reveal Comment

Hello @michaelmorcos Congratulations , greetings to all readers.

Currently there are many people who forget the little things in life.
This makes us pessimistic, we often have to be a bit optimistic in relation to everything that happens within our environment, and that the law of attraction generates.

Internal communication is the most important if you are in sync with your soul can evolve as a human being and be bigger in your life.

Best regards.

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Nice content

That's true...

I found the secret is to move to new places, and keep up old attachments but don't let them rule your life. If you move you don't become immersed in meaningless systems and structures you are lead to believe are important but are meaningless.

In a nut shell: flow, flow, flow: I agree.

FEAR is one of the biggest greatest destroyer of destiny especially fear that does not motivate but rather weakens. To excel and to avoid feeling lost in life, one must deal with FEAR at all cost. Fear is just FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL playing with your thoughts and thus limiting you.

"For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek" The Gospel of Paul, from Romans to Philemon.

I do agree!

Great post

I’d rather regret the things I’ve done than regret the things I haven’t done,If you don’t risk anything, you risk even more,If you don’t like the road you’re walking, start paving another one....

I really like your post

"2- Life lives on the beliefs of others" that right there is the main reason for feeling. Change this and everything is good. No one has to have a power over you. We give up our dreams because of this!

The tenth reason is my favorite ))

such a beautiful article and incredibly poignant to not only me but i'm sure many others, no need to suffer alone. everyone excels at different rates and comparing your life to others is only detrimental to you and nobody else. I like it well done!

Attachment to the past This one is powerful and legit.
Great work in sharing this with us.

lost my strength to move ahead and stick with the goals that i set before ... not easy to hear your internal voice as most of the time there isnt any ... people surrounding you might not even care what you do instead of discouraging you ... look forward to your another post to give advice on how to get the path of life back! thanks!

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Yes i agree, control is an illusion and we often ignore the real things in life. We should instead improve ourselves as people and be helpful in general. Be kind and have courage. And most importantly accept our mistakes and strive to be better versions of ourselves.
Thank you for the nice read.

I like your answer... In our infinite ignorance, we can't pretend to fix everything...

Thank you. An agreeing author is validation that i understand what is there in the article, partially or wholly, and can in a few ways relate to the article. Again, Excellent piece. And thank you for getting back.

yeah u right

Nicely written and great points you have showcased time to take a deep breath and analyse what's going on wrong :)

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There are events and just overall situations in life that people cannot control. The death of a beloved one, when you don't really like your job but you can't leave it for a period of time, maybe you ran out of money and have to pay debts and you are working on it but you wished you had more NOW, so many different situations that take time to solve.

Of course, not that you should settle with it, but that will make you feel lost and sad and angry for a period of time and you just have to go through it cause that's life, we are meant to be in bad situations, is the way to grow. When we are in it, I don't think we can see it that way, it's easier to just dwell on it.

Accept what you can't control but know that you have to work towards it to feel better.

I know there's a saying like that already, i just couldn't find it.

Good article, i liked your writting.

Nice post

Sometimes #5 gets the best of me, pain in the ass.

yeah .it does happens

Yes. The fear is my biggest problem and giving the value of others opinion. These are the things I'm working on and I really, really enjoyed this article because it really hit home.
Thank you @michaelmorcos

I know your post is very amazing, and so inspiring that .thanks for shar

I think the point is, seeing every situation as an experience whether it is good or bad. Just observe and take lessons.

A search of this page revealed that the word "Jesus" appeared zero times.
That is a real shame, because only Jesus can save and find you.

"For the Son of Man has come to seek and to save the lost." --Luke 19:10

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When I feel so bad I hug my children. Your post was very nice. i'm teacher at a village in Turkey. my children needs some help. if you interest you can check my page. stay with love. :)

100% true. Thanks :)

The one about negative people being around you resonates with me...they can suck the life right out of you.

Amazing Post!

Yes, you are right about this.in our life so many up and down come but we should give up.we should be very careful while choosing our life partner or best friend.I also passed this problem while choosing wrong person .

I so agree with this because it hit home it sems like there are always times in our life we feel lost. what has helped me when i been lost is going to the rock and reading selfhelp​ books thank you for sharing

Very uplightening post and also of big relevance for many people. I can see myself in many of your discreptions and I do agree with you That our bad, sad and fear thoughts are affecting our well being. Im one of thoose persons That have problems seeing happy things in everything, im usually a backwords thinker and That makes me feel lost and not liked. Thank you for the upvakening words.

Greetings friend, you're right. We must not allow ourselves to be carried out mechanically so that others have to have solitary mentalities that allow us to be at peace with ourselves and trust in God