In life it's good that we take responsibility for our actions and also the things that we did unconsciously.
But some of us do no reason in that way, maybe it's because we were brought up in a society were attention is not given to us and this might course inferiority complex. My question here is that is it good to please others and displease ourselves just because we are hoping to get something from them?
As for me it's not proper, why should you be pleasing others instead of giving yourself the attention you deserve.
My little opinion though.
Happy New Week.